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Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of illness and death.
Grief in the novel is an enduring force that reshapes a person’s identity and relationship with the world. Love and loss continue influencing the living long after death. Through the parallel journeys of Sophie and Eula, the novel argues that honoring the dead through emotional stasis ultimately stifles the living. Sophie’s fear of betraying her late best friend, Harrie, by moving on, and Eula’s physical neglect of Lilymoor after her husband’s death, both illustrate how unresolved grief leads to stagnation. The narrative suggests that true healing ultimately comes from integrating it into a life that continues to grow, demonstrating that one can carry love for the deceased while embracing new seasons of joy.
Sophie’s journey is initially defined by an obligation to the past. Her summer job at Lilymoor is the fulfillment of a 10-year-old promise made with Harrie rather than a step toward her own future. This self-imposed paralysis is rooted in her fear that personal growth is a form of betrayal. When she develops feelings for Cyrus, she worries that she is becoming “a different person than the one Harrie knew when she was alive” (260). The novel’s first-person point of view from Sophie’s perspective gives readers insight into her feelings, as she repeatedly views change and new happiness as a severing of her connection to her best friend. This internal conflict keeps her emotionally stuck, unable to pursue her own desires without feeling a strong sense of guilt.
Eula’s story offers a physical manifestation of this same emotional state. Following the death of her husband, Henry, Eula closes off the parts of Lilymoor most deeply connected to his memory, such as the greenhouse and the Willow Grove. Her grief causes the estate to fall into a state of loving neglect, a place where the flowers are dying because she has been too consumed by her loss to tend to them. The overgrown, forgotten sections of the garden are a direct metaphor for her unprocessed sorrow. By refusing to engage with the spaces that remind her of Henry, she has inadvertently allowed the entire estate to wither. Just as Sophie has put her own life on hold, Eula has frozen Lilymoor in time, preventing it from evolving and thriving beyond her own loss.
The conclusion ultimately develops this argument through a return to the novel’s beginning. Sophie’s final encounter with Harrie’s voice in the Hedges brings their friendship full circle, even if their conversation cannot restore the life they once shared. Instead, it allows Sophie to recognize that their connection persists despite the changes she has experienced. Her grief remains present, yet it no longer prevents her from loving others or imagining a future. By returning to the setting of the original promise, the narrative’s circular structure emphasizes the difference between Sophie’s earlier attachment to the past and her eventual acceptance of its continuing influence. Through new friendships, a love of the estate, and her new romance with Cyrus, the novel shows how Sophie’s enduring love becomes part of a changing life rather than an obstacle to it.
The natural world is both the novel’s primary setting and an extended metaphor for emotional restoration. Through the cultivation of Lilymoor’s gardens, the novel shows how healing is a gradual process that requires attention, patience, and a willingness to accept uncertainty. Plants cannot be forced to flourish simply because someone desires a beautiful result; they must be nurtured through changing conditions, periods of dormancy, and occasional failure. Similarly, personal recovery depends upon sustained support and attention rather than a single, transformative revelation. Nature becomes a means throughout the novel of exploring the relationship between vulnerability and renewal.
The initial state of Lilymoor’s gardens directly reflects the emotional landscapes of its primary caretakers. Upon Sophie’s arrival, the estate has fallen into “the kind of disrepair that showed it was still clearly loved but not well tended” (19). This description applies equally to Eula, who has walled off sections of the garden tied to her late husband, and to Sophie, who is trapped in her grief for Harrie. The overgrown vines, soggy flower beds, and closed-off groves are physical manifestations of their unprocessed sorrow. Sophie’s job is to bring these spaces back to life, a task that forces her to physically engage with neglect and decay. In digging into the soil, untangling vines, and finding the source of the rot, she is also excavating her own buried pain, making the act of gardening an active form of therapy.
The novel’s magical elements intensify this metaphor within the Someday Garden. Unlike the ordinary grounds of Lilymoor, the enclosed garden responds directly to the emotions developing between Sophie and Cyrus. As he builds the gazebo, plants seeds, and tends to the vines, the garden responds directly to his emotional state, bursting into bloom when he laughs or feels a connection with Sophie. This magical feedback loop makes the connection between inner and outer cultivation explicit: as Cyrus tends to the garden, he is also tending to his own capacity for joy, love, and forgiveness, allowing his walled-off emotions to flourish once more. However, this apparent harmony conceals an important limitation: the magical garden exists within a single, suspended evening. Although its extraordinary beauty is a temporary refuge, it does not have the changing seasons or ordinary experiences necessary for a complete life. When the real garden is revealed on the grounds, the juxtaposition between the flourishing magical garden and the neglected physical garden reveals the work required for genuine restoration—rather than relying on magic to create beauty.
After Sophie and Cyrus leave the Someday Garden and return to the unfinished garden, they can now begin to truly cultivate their relationship and return Lilymoor to what it once was. Their romance blossoms, Cyrus reconnects and reconciles with Oliver, and Eula is finally able to retire and rest. The couple can now experience seasons, make plans, and restore the real Lilymoor grounds—and their relationship—through their own efforts. By the Epilogue, this metaphor extends through the passage of years, as relationships develop, people depart, and new experiences reshape life at Lilymoor. The final image of happiness in a garden that can continue change emphasizes healing as a process of ongoing cultivation and care.
Throughout the novel, language is a form of magic, a tool for articulating and processing complex emotions that defy simple explanation. Harrie’s collection of untranslatable words and the characters’ knowledge of floriography—the Victorian language of flowers—provide essential frameworks for navigating the nuances of longing, grief, and love. Poston structures the narrative to suggest that finding the right word or symbol can make the intangible tangible, giving shape to feelings that might otherwise remain overwhelming and unspoken. This specialized vocabulary becomes a lifeline for the characters, allowing for deeper communication and understanding in a world where ordinary words often fall short.
The book’s very structure reinforces this theme, with each chapter titled by one of Harrie’s untranslatable words. This device frames the emotional journey of each section, providing a specific lens through which to view the characters’ experiences. The first chapter, “fernweh,” is defined as a “far-sickness” for a place one has never been, perfectly capturing Sophie’s inexplicable longing for Lilymoor. Later chapters use words like “toska” (a deep, objectless sadness) and “saudade” (melancholy longing for someone absent) to pinpoint the precise nature of Sophie’s grief. Harrie’s fascination with unusual words becomes part of the storytelling itself, preserving her perspective in a unique way that allows her to continue to guide Sophie even in her absence. The chapter headings and their unique words are a recurring motif that connects the novel’s emotional development to the friendship at its center.
Floriography functions as another essential, non-verbal language. For Sophie, it is a way to communicate with precision when words fail. At Harrie’s funeral, she meticulously assembles bouquets to convey specific sentiments, selecting “Roses for devotion, pink carnations and rosemary for remembrance, bluebells for kindness, zinnias for absent friends” (50). This final, articulate conversation with her best friend through flowers allows her to show her continued love and respect for her deceased friend. Similarly, in the Someday Garden, Sophie’s conversations with Cyrus uses this knowledge to create a shared language of affection. Their discussion of flowers associated with yearning and devotion allows romantic feelings to emerge indirectly, creating intimacy through their mutual understanding of this botanical symbolism. The contrast between these exchanges and both of their earlier emotional restraint underscores how communication and language extend beyond words.
Ultimately, the novel shows that the true magic of language lies in connection. In her final, mystical conversation with Harrie’s voice, Sophie’s last question is a request for a word: “Gökotta,” the Swedish term for waking up early to listen to the birds. The word becomes a touchstone for Sophie’s future with Cyrus, integrating Harrie’s legacy into her new life. In this way, language becomes a bridge between past and present, a magical inheritance that allows love and memory to coexist.



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By Ashley Poston