The Way We Live Now

Susan Sontag

The Way We Live Now

Susan Sontag
29 pages58-minute read
Fiction
Short Story
Adult
Published in 1986

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Character List

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Major Characters

An unnamed, middle-aged gay or bisexual man who serves as the center of a large, interconnected social circle in the early 1980s. Following a positive AIDS diagnosis, his personal identity and vibrancy are quickly overshadowed by his illness. He rarely speaks for himself, instead existing as a static subject of constant gossip, performance, and monitoring by his vast network of friends. He attempts to quietly process his shifting reality by keeping a personal diary during his hospital stay.

Key Relationships

Friend and patient of Quentin

Friend of Betsy

Friend of Yvonne

Friend of Max

Former partner of Nora

A dedicated friend who appoints himself as the protagonist's primary caregiver, adopting a Florence Nightingale-like persona. Quentin moves into his friend's penthouse to cook, clean, and manage the social calendar, establishing lists and gatekeeping access to the patient. He derives a deep sense of power and self-importance from this caregiving role, utilizing it to assert dominance in the friend group hierarchy.

Key Relationships

Friend and caregiver of He

Friend of Kate

Argumentative friend of Ira

A straight female friend of the protagonist who positions herself within the inner circle but feels deeply insecure about her social standing. She defends traditional family structures and struggles with the dynamic hierarchies of queer chosen families. Betsy frequently moralizes the protagonist's illness, equating his condition to a lack of self-control while relishing the opportunity to feel superior.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Confidant of Jan

Friend of Lewis

A friend of the protagonist who flies in from London to visit him in the hospital. As an outsider to the immediate social circle, she observes the group dynamics with a sense of wonder. She provides perspective on the harsh ostracism and fear surrounding AIDS in England, praising the American friends for establishing a utopia of friendship, though she misses the performative nature of their support.

Key Relationships

Visiting friend of He

Supporting Characters

A gay or bisexual man in the friend group who faces the same heightened anxieties and demographic risks as the protagonist. Max observes his friend's declining health with deep personal fear, acutely aware of the vulnerability of his own community in the early days of the epidemic.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Ellen

A practical and information-driven friend who takes the lead in staying informed about the disease. He reads medical journals, questions the hospital doctors, and encourages the group to maintain physical shape and health. Stephen constantly communicates with others, acting as a central hub for the vast phone network of gossiping friends.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Kate

Friend of Frank

A highly emotional friend who cries over discussing the protagonist in the past tense. Kate consciously avoids bringing depressing flowers to the hospital, opting to bring candy instead. She has a history of criticizing the protagonist's indulgent lifestyle but remains a constant presence at his bedside.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Quentin

Friend of Stephen

A gay or bisexual friend who is paralyzed by the fear of the spreading epidemic. He dreads answering the telephone, worried it will only bring news of more illness among his community. Lewis pushes back against Betsy's moralizing comments, reminding her that it only takes a single exposure to contract the disease.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Betsy

Rival of Frank

A gay or bisexual friend who uses the pretense of fetching hospital supplies to tour the protagonist's swank bachelor penthouse. Jan breezily claims the diagnosis has demystified the disease for him, a statement that causes friction with Quentin, who believes Jan does not fully grasp the gravity of the situation.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Betsy

A gay or bisexual friend within the social circle who experiences mounting terror over the spreading epidemic. He participates in the group's constant check-ins and gossip while maintaining an ongoing feud with Lewis.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Rival of Lewis

Friend of Stephen

An optimistic friend who tries to interpret the protagonist's new habits, such as diary-keeping, as a sign of good spirits. He frequently visits the hospital and reflects on the protagonist's past relationships.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Victor

A friend who acts as a sounding board for other members of the group. He expresses sharp concern over the amount of chocolate the protagonist eats, viewing it as a harmful indulgence, and confirms the existence of Quentin's social hierarchy list.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Robert

Friend of Donny

A friend who articulates the pervasive fear surrounding sexuality and the epidemic. She views human sexuality as a chain of being that has tragically transformed into a chain of death, linking everyone to unknown others.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Max

A friend who tries to maintain composure during the crisis. She harbors personal experience with the epidemic outside of the immediate social circle, as her elderly aunt is also suffering from the disease after receiving a blood transfusion.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

A friend who becomes the target of the group's judgment. The inner circle turns on her for not visiting the hospital frequently enough, attributing her absence to jealousy and an unrequited crush on the protagonist.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

A friend who visits the protagonist and openly debates the best way to support him. Ira clashes directly with Quentin over whether the patient's shifting mood depends on the specific guests visiting or the gifts they bring.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Argumentative friend of Quentin

A friend who rationalizes visiting the hospital less frequently by assuming the protagonist wants time alone. She ultimately progresses further through the stages of grief than others in the social circle, reaching a level of acceptance.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Robert

A friend who feels marginalized within the social network. He openly complains about being relegated to the secondary list of friends, acutely aware of the social hierarchy dictated by Quentin.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

Friend of Victor

Friend of Ursula

A friend who actively participates in the group's frantic phone tree. She congratulates herself on coping well with the crisis and takes an intrusive peek at the protagonist's diary, noting his deteriorating handwriting.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

A gay or bisexual friend in the protagonist's inner circle. Like Max, Lewis, and Frank, Paolo experiences a deeply personal and escalating terror regarding his own vulnerability to the epidemic.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

A friend who adopts a pessimistic view of the medical treatment. He worries about the effectiveness of the doctors and shares the general dread of the escalating crisis within the social circle.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

A friend who attempts to maintain a positive, practical outlook. He encourages the protagonist to keep in shape and participates in the early speculation before the official diagnosis is confirmed.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

One of the many voices in the social circle's expansive phone network, conveying early concerns and rumors about their mutual friend's declining health.

Key Relationships

Friend of He

A woman from the protagonist's past. Her former relationship with him is discussed by his friends as they reflect on his life and history during his hospitalization.

Key Relationships

Former partner of He