Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay

Elena Ferrante

Those Who Leave and Those Who Stay

Elena Ferrante
68 pages2-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 2013

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Elena is a bright, educated young woman who has successfully authored a book and escaped her impoverished Neapolitan roots. She moves through the intellectual circles of Italy while preparing for her marriage to a university professor. Despite her academic and professional achievements, she battles deep feelings of inadequacy.

Key Relationships

Childhood Best Friend of Lila Cerullo

Fiancée of Pietro Airota

Childhood Friend of Nino Sarratore

Daughter-in-law of Adele Airota

Older Sister of Elisa Greco

Mother of Dede

Mother of Elsa

Lila is Elena's fiercely intelligent and unpredictable childhood friend who remains in Naples. Estranged from her abusive husband, she lives with her companion Enzo and works physically demanding shifts to support her young son. She possesses a natural charisma that allows her to organize and influence those around her, even without formal education.

Key Relationships

Childhood Best Friend of Elena Greco

Companion of Enzo Scanno

Mother of Gennaro

Estranged Wife of Stefano Carracci

Employee of Bruno Soccavo

Target of Obsession of Michele Solara

Political Ally of Pasquale Peluso

Daughter of Nunzia

Pietro is a mild-mannered, successful young university professor who comes from an influential family. He expects a highly traditional marriage and grows uncomfortable whenever Elena pursues intellectual independence. He prefers routine and often avoids political conflicts at the university.

Key Relationships

Fiancé of Elena Greco

Son of Adele Airota

Brother of Mariarosa Airota

Acquaintance of Nino Sarratore

Father of Dede

Father of Elsa

Nino is an intellectual and academic from Elena's childhood neighborhood who frequently travels for his studies. He is highly opinionated and charismatic, drawing the attention of numerous women. While he deeply criticizes his own father's behavior, he shares his habit of leaving behind former partners and children.

Key Relationships

Childhood Friend of Elena Greco

Former Partner of Lila Cerullo

Son of Donato Sarratore

Former Partner of Silvia

Husband of Eleonora

Father of Albertino

Michele belongs to the wealthy, criminal Solara family that controls much of the Neapolitan neighborhood's underground economy. He uses intimidation and financial leverage to maintain absolute power over the locals. He harbors a deep, intellectual obsession with Lila, viewing her as the only woman who truly equals him.

Key Relationships

Husband of Gigliola Spagnuolo

Obsessed Admirer of Lila Cerullo

Brother of Marcello Solara

Son of Manuela Solara

Supporting Characters

Bruno is the owner of a meat-processing plant near Naples. He inherited the business from his family and runs it with little regard for the safety or comfort of his workers. He feels entitled to the attention of his female employees and uses his position to intimidate them when they reject him.

Key Relationships

Employer of Lila Cerullo

Acquaintance of Nino Sarratore

Enzo is a quiet, steadfast man from the neighborhood who offers Lila a safe home after she leaves her husband. He works during the day and dedicates his evenings to studying correspondence courses in computer engineering. He admires Lila's intelligence without trying to control it.

Key Relationships

Companion of Lila Cerullo

Caretaker of Gennaro

Childhood Friend of Elena Greco

Pasquale is a passionate, working-class communist who fiercely advocates for union rights. He frequently attempts to organize the workers at the salami factory and draws Lila into the political struggle. He harbors resentment toward those he feels abandon their working-class roots for bourgeois comforts.

Key Relationships

Boyfriend of Nadia Galiani

Political Ally of Lila Cerullo

Childhood Friend of Elena Greco

Nadia is the daughter of a respected high school teacher and grew up with middle-class privileges. She involves herself heavily in communist politics and student protests to offset her guilt over her comfortable upbringing, frequently clashing with those she views as insufficiently radical.

Key Relationships

Girlfriend of Pasquale Peluso

Daughter of Professor Galiani

Political Associate of Lila Cerullo

Gigliola is a childhood friend of Elena and Lila who marries into the wealthy Solara family. She suffers under her husband's blatant infidelity and cruelty, leading a miserable existence despite her material wealth. She recognizes the shared indignities women face in their community.

Key Relationships

Childhood Friend of Elena Greco

Acquaintance of Lila Cerullo

Adele is Pietro's mother and a prominent figure in the publishing and intellectual world. She is affluent, sophisticated, and highly connected. She acts as a mentor to Elena, helping her select furnishings and doctors while navigating her new upper-class life.

Key Relationships

Mother of Pietro Airota

Mother of Mariarosa Airota

Mother-in-law of Elena Greco

Mariarosa is Pietro's sister, deeply involved in student protests and feminist politics in Milan. She operates in direct contrast to her brother's traditionalism, hosting revolutionary meetings in her apartment and introducing Elena to feminist literature.

Key Relationships

Sister of Pietro Airota

Daughter of Adele Airota

Sister-in-law of Elena Greco

Stefano is Lila's estranged, wealthy husband who manages the family's grocery business. He maintains his status in the neighborhood through alliances with the Solara family and currently lives with his mistress, Ada.

Key Relationships

Estranged Husband of Lila Cerullo

Father of Gennaro

Older Brother of Alfonso Carracci

Partner of Ada Cappuccio

Manuela is the matriarch of the Solara family and a feared moneylender in the neighborhood. She maintains control over the local economy with her infamous "Red Book" of debts, wielding quiet but absolute authority over her sons and the community.

Key Relationships

Mother of Michele Solara

Mother of Marcello Solara

Professor Galiani is Elena's former high school teacher who belongs to the educated middle class. She is highly cultured and frequently hosts political and intellectual gatherings, showing a distinct fascination with Lila's raw intellect while largely ignoring Elena's formal achievements.

Key Relationships

Mother of Nadia Galiani

Mother of Armando Galiani

Former Teacher of Elena Greco

Hostess to Lila Cerullo

Alfonso is Stefano's younger brother and a former classmate of Elena and Lila. He feels alienated by the violent masculinity expected of men in his neighborhood and feels a deep, quiet kinship with Lila, wishing he could emulate her.

Key Relationships

Younger Brother of Stefano Carracci

Fiancé of Marisa Sarratore

Former Brother-in-law of Lila Cerullo

Marcello is the older brother in the Solara family. Like his brother, he uses his wealth and family influence to dominate the neighborhood, though he occasionally displays a more agreeable demeanor with those he wishes to court.

Key Relationships

Older Brother of Michele Solara

Son of Manuela Solara

Romantic Interest of Elisa Greco

Elisa is Elena's younger sister who remains in the family's working-class Neapolitan neighborhood. She grows weary of her family's poverty and seeks stability and comfort, leading her toward relationships with wealthy local figures.

Key Relationships

Younger Sister of Elena Greco

Romantic Interest of Marcello Solara

Silvia is a young mother involved in the student protests alongside Mariarosa. She struggles to balance her political activism with the demands of caring for her infant son without the father's support.

Key Relationships

Mother of Mirko

Former Partner of Nino Sarratore

Acquaintance of Elena Greco

Franco is Elena's former boyfriend from her university days in Pisa. He has become deeply entrenched in radical student politics and acts dismissive of Elena's new lifestyle, which he views as excessively bourgeois.

Key Relationships

Former Boyfriend of Elena Greco

Political Ally of Mariarosa Airota

Nunzia is Lila's mother. She visits her daughter in her new home but harshly criticizes her choices, blaming Lila for the poverty the Cerullo family endures since she left her wealthy husband.

Key Relationships

Mother of Lila Cerullo

Eleonora is Nino's wife. She speaks with a harsh Neapolitan accent and appears entirely disconnected from her husband's intellectual pursuits, providing him with domestic comfort instead.

Key Relationships

Mother of Albertino

Albertino is the young son of Nino and Eleonora, brought along on his father's academic trips.

Key Relationships

Son of Eleonora

Mirko is the infant son of Silvia and Nino Sarratore, raised entirely by his mother after his father abandoned them.

Key Relationships

Son of Silvia

Dede, officially named Adele after her grandmother, is Elena and Pietro's first daughter. Her birth brings Elena significant anxiety regarding her capabilities as a mother.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Elena Greco

Daughter of Pietro Airota

Older Sister of Elsa

Elsa is Elena and Pietro's second child, named against Pietro's traditional wishes to honor Elena's own mother.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Elena Greco

Daughter of Pietro Airota

Younger Sister of Dede

Clelia is a nanny employed by Elena and Pietro to help care for Dede, affording Elena time to pursue her intellectual interests.

Key Relationships

Employee of Elena Greco

Caretaker of Dede

Gennaro is Lila's young son. He grows up in a tense environment, and his mother constantly worries about securing proper educational opportunities for him to escape their poverty.

Key Relationships

Ward of Enzo Scanno

Son of Stefano Carracci