Ties That Bind, Ties That Break

Lensey Namioka

Ties That Bind, Ties That Break

Lensey Namioka
70 pages2-hour read
Fiction
Novel
YA
Published in 1999

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

A spirited and rebellious Chinese girl born into an upper-class family in Nanjing. Unwilling to endure the pain and physical limitations of foot binding, she defies centuries of tradition. Her independence leads her to pursue a public education and chart a highly unconventional path for a woman of her era.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Father

Daughter of Mother

Granddaughter of Grandmother

Niece of Big Uncle

Younger Sister of Second Sister

Former Fiancé of Liu Hanwei

Friend of Zhang Xueyan

Employee of The Warner Family

Romantic Interest of James Chew (Zhao)

Ailin's intelligent father, who possesses modern sensibilities and a mild manner. Unlike the more traditional members of the household, he recognizes that China is changing and supports Ailin's desire to remain unbound and receive a public education.

Key Relationships

Father of Tao Ailin

Younger Brother of Big Uncle

Husband of Mother

Son of Grandmother

Father of Second Sister

A young male member of the prestigious and wealthy Liu family, originally intended to marry Ailin. He attends public school and introduces Ailin to the idea of Western education. Their engagement breaks due to her unbound feet, but he retains a lasting curiosity about her choices.

Key Relationships

Former Fiancé of Tao Ailin

Son of Mrs. Liu

Ailin's uncle and a staunch traditionalist who favors imperialist rule and strict adherence to old customs. Crass and uncouth, he loudly opposes foreign influence, public education for girls, and Ailin's refusal to bind her feet.

Key Relationships

Uncle of Tao Ailin

Older Brother of Father

Son of Grandmother

Supporting Characters

Ailin's older sister, who adheres to the traditional expectations of upper-class Chinese women. She submits to the painful process of foot binding and values family standing, serving as a direct contrast to Ailin's rebellious nature.

Key Relationships

Older Sister of Tao Ailin

Daughter of Father

Daughter of Mother

A like-minded classmate of Ailin's at the MacIntosh School. Also possessing unbound feet, she aspires to become a doctor and remain independent rather than marry. She is proud of her large feet and shares Ailin's rebellious spirit.

Key Relationships

Friend of Tao Ailin

Acquaintance of Liu Hanwei

An American Protestant missionary and English teacher at the MacIntosh School. As the first foreigner Ailin interacts with, she recognizes her student's talent for languages and provides crucial support and connections to the outside world.

Key Relationships

Teacher of Tao Ailin

An American missionary family residing in China, consisting of parents Timothy and Imogene and their young children, Billy and Grace. They harbor deep suspicions about Chinese culture and Confucianism, creating cultural friction with their employees.

Key Relationships

Employer of Tao Ailin

Member of Timothy Warner

Member of Imogene Warner

A Chinese-American man born in San Francisco to a family that owns a Chinatown restaurant. As a working-class second son, he feels restricted by his family's business hierarchy but is deeply inspired by Ailin's fierce independence and courage.

Key Relationships

Romantic Interest of Tao Ailin

The strict matriarch of the Tao household. She places paramount importance on the family's social standing and fiercely advocates for traditional gender roles, insisting that Ailin must have her feet bound to secure a prosperous marriage.

Key Relationships

Grandmother of Tao Ailin

Mother of Father

Mother of Big Uncle

Mother-in-law of Mother

Ailin's mother, who enforces the household's traditional expectations. Concerned with the family's financial losses and social standing, she believes Ailin's headstrong nature and unbound feet will ruin her future prospects.

Key Relationships

Mother of Tao Ailin

Mother of Second Sister

Wife of Father

Daughter-in-law of Grandmother

Employer of Amah

Hanwei's mother, a woman from a wealthy and traditional family. While she adheres to modern fashion in some respects, she firmly expects her future daughter-in-law to have bound feet as a mark of status and obedience.

Key Relationships

Mother of Liu Hanwei

Acquaintance of Grandmother

A foreign teacher at Ailin's public school who views Chinese culture through a highly critical and prejudiced lens. She openly denigrates China's history and believes the culture is inherently oppressive to women.

Key Relationships

Teacher of Tao Ailin

Teacher of Zhang Xueyan

The patriarch of the American missionary family that employs Ailin. He is deeply wary of Chinese philosophies, incorrectly viewing Confucianism as a heathen religion and demanding his children receive a strictly Western education.

Key Relationships

Husband of Imogene Warner

Employer of Tao Ailin

The matriarch of the Warner family. She relies heavily on Ailin to care for her children, though she also exhibits cultural misunderstandings regarding Ailin's background and language.

Key Relationships

Wife of Timothy Warner

Employer of Tao Ailin

The five-year-old son of the Warners. Rambunctious and unruly, he shares a kindred spirit with Ailin, who manages to soothe him using traditional Chinese stories.

Key Relationships

Brother of Grace Warner

Ward of Tao Ailin

The six-year-old daughter of the Warners. She is cared for by Ailin, who bribes her and her brother into good behavior with the promise of teaching them Chinese brush-painting.

Key Relationships

Sister of Billy Warner

Ward of Tao Ailin

Ailin's governess. Constrained by her own bound feet, she struggles to keep up with the energetic, unbound young girl and assists in the attempts to force Ailin into the foot-binding process.

Key Relationships

Caretaker of Tao Ailin

Employee of Mother