We Must Not Think of Ourselves: A Novel

Lauren Grodstein

52 pages 1-hour read

Lauren Grodstein

We Must Not Think of Ourselves: A Novel

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2023

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Adam is a non-religious Polish Jew and former foreign language teacher who is relocated to the Warsaw ghetto. Grieving his late Catholic wife, Kasia, he maintains a surprisingly optimistic outlook and tries to protect his young students by teaching them happy poetry. Because of his background in languages and literature, he gets recruited for a secret archival project documenting ghetto life.

Key Relationships

Widower of Kasia Paskow

Son-in-law of Henryk Duda

Housemate and confidant of Sala Wiskoff

Teacher of Szifra Joseph

Subordinate archivist to Emanuel Ringelblum

Teacher and housemate of Filip Lescovec

Sala is a mother of two boys who shares a crowded ghetto apartment with her husband Emil, Adam, and the Lescovec family. Raised in a sheltered religious home, she desires freedom and possesses a deep love for her children. She finds comfort in conversing with Adam about her past life and her dreams.

Key Relationships

Wife of Emil Wiskoff

Mother of Arkady Wiskoff

Mother of Rafel Wiskoff

Daughter-in-law of Reva

Friend and confidante of Adam Paskow

Szifra is a striking 15-year-old student of Adam's whose blond hair and blue eyes allow her to pass as ethnic German. Following her father's suicide and her mother's declining health, she assumes the heavy burden of providing for her two younger brothers. She relies on extreme pragmatism, making dangerous compromises with guards to secure resources for her family.

Key Relationships

Older sister of Eli Joseph

Older sister of Jakub Joseph

Daughter of Avram Joseph

Student of Adam Paskow

Henryk is Adam's wealthy, well-connected Polish Catholic father-in-law. He genuinely loved his daughter Kasia and extends a patronizing affection toward Adam. He behaves opportunistically, using his supposed benevolence to manipulate Adam into giving up his apartment and valuables.

Key Relationships

Father-in-law of Adam Paskow

Father of Kasia Paskow

Husband of Anna

Associate of Nowak

Supporting Characters

A historian who organizes the Oneg Shabbat Archive within the ghetto. He believes strongly in recording a comprehensive, objective account of Jewish life under oppression. He pushes his contributors to gather stories from all walks of life, refusing to shy away from uncomfortable truths.

Key Relationships

Recruiter of Adam Paskow

Colleague of Pan Forman

Sala's husband and a Lithuanian former businessman who used to sell sewing machines. In the ghetto, he serves as a counselor to the Judenrat (Jewish council) and attempts to maintain his dignity and professional appearance despite their harsh living conditions.

Key Relationships

Husband of Sala Wiskoff

Father of Arkady Wiskoff

Father of Rafel Wiskoff

Son of Reva

Adam's late wife, a Polish Catholic woman who died from a brain injury following a fall prior to the war. Her memory grounds Adam, while her remaining wedding jewelry serves as his only potential currency for survival.

Key Relationships

Wife of Adam Paskow

Daughter of Henryk Duda

Daughter of Anna

An 11-year-old boy who shares the apartment with Adam and the Wiskoffs. A former school soccer player, he copes with the ghetto's restrictions by carving wooden figurines with a Swiss Army knife and participating in the dangerous underground smuggling network.

Key Relationships

Son of Mariam Lescovec

Brother of Jerzy Lescovec

Student of Adam Paskow

Filip and Jerzy's mother, and one of Adam's housemates. The daughter of a former fishmonger, she carries the grief of experiencing anti-Semitism from people she once considered close family friends prior to the invasion.

Key Relationships

Mother of Filip Lescovec

Mother of Jerzy Lescovec

Housemate of Adam Paskow

Filip's older brother. He attempts to maintain a sense of normalcy in the ghetto by pursuing a romance with a girl from a neighboring street, eventually proposing marriage.

Key Relationships

Son of Mariam Lescovec

Brother of Filip Lescovec

Sala and Emil's older son. Like many children in the ghetto, he endures extreme deprivation and occasionally secures extra food for the household through barter and smuggling.

Key Relationships

Son of Emil Wiskoff

Brother of Rafel Wiskoff

Sala and Emil's younger son. He finds brief moments of childhood joy by participating in makeshift entertainment like courtyard dog races with other children.

Key Relationships

Son of Emil Wiskoff

Brother of Arkady Wiskoff

Szifra's younger brother. Following his parents' tragedies, he becomes entirely dependent on Szifra's dangerous efforts to secure resources and papers for their survival, occasionally asking Adam to teach him German.

Key Relationships

Brother of Szifra Joseph

Brother of Jakub Joseph

Student of Adam Paskow

Szifra's youngest brother, who retains very few memories of life before the ghetto. He relies completely on his older sister for food and survival.

Key Relationships

Brother of Szifra Joseph

Brother of Eli Joseph

One of Adam's young students in the ghetto. He attends lessons with his sister Charlotte and frequently squabbles with the other children about their bleak circumstances.

Key Relationships

Brother of Charlotte

Student of Adam Paskow

An 11-year-old student who lives in the ghetto. She shares her family's complex history with Adam for the archive, expressing a desire for a traditional family life rather than mimicking her rebellious older sister.

Key Relationships

Sister of Roman

Student of Adam Paskow

A Polish guard who acts as a smuggler and intermediary. He profits off the desperate Jewish residents by selling smuggled goods at highly inflated prices and delivering messages from the outside.

Key Relationships

Black-market contact of Adam Paskow

Associate of Henryk Duda

A cynical fellow member of the Oneg Shabbat project. He views the archival work as a futile exercise, believing that the horrific circumstances of the ghetto have exposed the innate selfishness of its residents rather than their nobility.

Key Relationships

Colleague of Emanuel Ringelblum

Colleague of Adam Paskow

Szifra's late father, who owned a clothing factory before the war. His inability to cope with the loss of his business and status led to his suicide, leaving his family vulnerable.

Key Relationships

Father of Szifra Joseph

Emil's late mother who moved in with Emil and Sala after her husband died. She essentially took over running their household and preserved a copy of their family's 300-year-old lineage before being tragically killed by a guard during the ghetto relocation.

Key Relationships

Mother of Emil Wiskoff

Mother-in-law of Sala Wiskoff

Kasia's mother and Henryk's wife. She holds strong prejudices and completely disowned Kasia for choosing to marry a Jewish man, famously cursing Adam at the wedding.

Key Relationships

Mother of Kasia Paskow

Wife of Henryk Duda

Mother-in-law of Adam Paskow