Eating Together

Li-Young Lee

Eating Together

Li-Young Lee
17 pages34-minute read
Fiction
Poem
Adult
Published in 1986

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Character List

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Major Characters

The unnamed narrator functions as an anonymous, objective witness to a family lunch. Devoid of specific identity markers like a name or explicit gender, the speaker is defined primarily by their relationship to the family and the shared meal. They document the sensory details of the food and the shifts in family dynamics with a calm, observant tone.

Key Relationships

Respectful Child of The Mother

Mourning Child of The Father

Sibling of The Brothers

Sibling of The Sister

Following the recent passing of her husband, the mother steps into the leadership role within the family. She assumes the privileges and gestures formerly reserved for him. By expertly handling the fish head, she replicates her husband's physical mannerisms. Her actions provide stability to her children during the shared meal.

Key Relationships

Mother of The Speaker

Widow of The Father

Mother of The Brothers

Mother of The Sister

The recently deceased patriarch of the family remains a strong spiritual presence at the lunch table. In life, he held the position of seniority, enjoying the choicest parts of the family's meals. His memory is summoned by the sensory details of the food and his wife's replication of his gestures.

Key Relationships

Father of The Speaker

Deceased Husband of The Mother

Father of The Brothers

Father of The Sister

Supporting Characters

The speaker's brothers are part of the younger generation at the family lunch. They participate in the shared mourning and the consumption of the steamed trout. They accept their mother's new position at the top of the family structure without question, deferring the choicest parts of the food to her.

Key Relationships

Siblings of The Speaker

Children of The Mother

Children of The Father

Siblings of The Sister

The speaker's sister joins the rest of the family in the meal and the collective mourning process. Like her brothers, she defers to her mother's authority. She helps maintain the traditional family dynamics and contributes to the unifying presence of the group.

Key Relationships

Sibling of The Speaker

Child of The Mother

Child of The Father

Sibling of The Brothers