I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter

Erika L. Sanchez

83 pages 2-hour read

Erika L. Sanchez

I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter

Fiction | Novel | YA | Published in 2017

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Julia is a 15-year-old Mexican American high school student living in Chicago. She is fiercely independent, observant, and harbors dreams of moving to New York to become a famous writer. Unlike her sister, Julia refuses to conform to her devout parents' expectations of the "perfect Mexican daughter," preferring band t-shirts, reading poetry, and challenging traditional norms. Her constant hunger mirrors her deep desire to escape the confines of her working-class neighborhood.

Key Relationships

Older Sister of Olga Reyes

Daughter of Amparo Montenegro Reyes

Daughter of Rafael Reyes

Best Friend of Lorena

Romantic Interest of Connor

Student of Mr. Ingman

Olga is Julia's 22-year-old older sister who recently died after being hit by a semi-truck while crossing the street. In life, she was considered the ideal, obedient child by her traditional parents—meek, deeply devoted to her family, and content with working at a medical office while attending community college. Her sudden death leaves a massive void in the Reyes household and casts a long shadow over Julia.

Key Relationships

Older Sister of Julia Reyes

Daughter of Amparo Montenegro Reyes

Daughter of Rafael Reyes

Best Friend of Angie

Romantic Partner of Pedro

Amparo is a Mexican immigrant and house cleaner who works tirelessly to support her family in Chicago. She maintains strict traditional values and expectations for her daughters, frequently clashing with Julia's rebellious nature. Deeply traumatized by Olga's sudden death, she struggles to cope and often redirects her grief into obsessive cleaning and criticizing Julia's behavior.

Key Relationships

Mother of Julia Reyes

Mother of Olga Reyes

Wife of Rafael Reyes

Daughter of Mama Jacinta

Sister of Tia Fermina

Rafael is a Mexican immigrant who works long, exhausting hours at a local candy factory. He is a quiet man who spends his limited free time watching television or sleeping to recover from his physical labor. His silent, withdrawn nature creates a vast emotional distance between him and his surviving daughter.

Key Relationships

Father of Julia Reyes

Father of Olga Reyes

Husband of Amparo Montenegro Reyes

Supporting Characters

Lorena is Julia's childhood best friend and fellow first-generation Mexican American. She is a vibrant, carefree teenager who enjoys partying, offering a clear contrast to Julia's intellectual pursuits. Despite their differing interests, Lorena is highly dependable and serves as Julia's primary emotional anchor.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Julia Reyes

Friend of Juanga

Romantic Partner of Carlos

Dependent of Jose Luis

Connor is a wealthy, white high school student from the affluent Chicago suburb of Evanston. He connects with Julia over a shared love of literature and alternative music. Though he is consistently kind and supportive, his comfortable upbringing stands in direct contrast to Julia's working-class reality, which occasionally causes tension between them.

Key Relationships

Romantic Interest of Julia Reyes

Angie is Olga's long-time best friend who works at a luxury hotel in the city. Like Olga, she fits the mold of an obedient Mexican daughter who chooses to remain close to her family. When Julia approaches her asking questions about Olga's private life, Angie remains highly defensive and guarded.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Olga Reyes

Acquaintance of Julia Reyes

Mr. Ingman is an English teacher at Julia's high school in Chicago. He is one of the few adults who recognizes Julia's intelligence and potential as a writer. He actively checks in on her mental well-being and encourages her to look beyond her current circumstances to apply for colleges.

Key Relationships

Teacher of Julia Reyes

Juanga is a proudly gay teenager at Julia's high school who quickly forms a close bond with Lorena. He frequently accompanies Lorena and Julia to parties and social events, eventually earning Julia's respect despite her initial jealousy of his friendship with Lorena.

Key Relationships

Friend of Lorena

Acquaintance of Julia Reyes

Mama Jacinta is Julia's maternal grandmother who lives in the rural town of Los Ojos, Mexico. She is a warm, welcoming figure who teaches Julia how to cook traditional dishes and provides a comforting presence far removed from the stressful environment in Chicago.

Key Relationships

Mother of Amparo Montenegro Reyes

Grandmother of Julia Reyes

Pedro is Olga's official, long-term boyfriend. Julia considers him incredibly boring and unremarkable, noting that he fits perfectly with the family's image of Olga's predictable, traditional life.

Key Relationships

Romantic Partner of Olga Reyes

Jose Luis is the boyfriend of Lorena's mother. He exhibits creepy, predatory behavior, such as crouching near Julia while she sleeps, creating an unsafe and uncomfortable environment in Lorena's home.

Key Relationships

Guardian of Lorena

Acquaintance of Julia Reyes

Tia Milagros is one of Julia's many extended relatives in Chicago. Julia views her as a bitter, resentful woman who frequently offers unsolicited, critical comments about Julia's appearance, appetite, and behavior.

Key Relationships

Aunt of Julia Reyes

Relative of Amparo Montenegro Reyes

Tio Cayetano is an uncle whom Julia actively dislikes and attempts to avoid at family gatherings due to his history of lacking physical boundaries when she was younger.

Key Relationships

Uncle of Julia Reyes

Dr. Cooke is a therapist who treats Julia. She provides Julia with a clinical diagnosis for her anxiety and depression, offering her medical support, coping mechanisms, and a safe space to process her complicated family dynamics.

Key Relationships

Doctor of Julia Reyes

Esteban is a young man living in Los Ojos who quickly strikes up a connection with Julia during her visit. He shares a sense of restlessness with her, harboring thoughts of eventually crossing the border to the United States.

Key Relationships

Romantic Interest of Julia Reyes

Tia Fermina is Amparo's sister who still lives in Mexico. She is deeply connected to traditional practices, tending to roses despite local droughts and performing spiritual cleansing rituals for her niece.

Key Relationships

Sister of Amparo Montenegro Reyes

Aunt of Julia Reyes

Dr. Castillo is a 46-year-old physician at the clinic where Olga worked. He maintains an established career in the medical field but experiences a deep emotional toll following the tragic death of his employee.

Key Relationships

Colleague of Olga Reyes

Jazmyn is an old high school friend of Olga. She interacts with Julia at a party, expressing shock upon hearing about Olga's death and providing Julia with minor details about Olga's past conversations.

Key Relationships

Friend of Olga Reyes

Acquaintance of Julia Reyes

Carlos is Lorena's boyfriend and a local police officer. He participates in group outings with Lorena and Julia, though his primary focus remains on his relationship with Lorena.

Key Relationships

Romantic Partner of Lorena

Cousin of Ramiro

Ramiro is the cousin of Lorena's boyfriend, Carlos. He accompanies the group to the beach on a freezing night and shares a brief, awkward encounter with Julia.

Key Relationships

Cousin of Carlos

Acquaintance of Julia Reyes

Tio Chucho is Julia's uncle in Mexico who drives her from the airport to Los Ojos. He strongly encourages her educational ambitions, hoping she avoids the difficult physical labor the rest of the family endures.

Key Relationships

Uncle of Julia Reyes

Belen is Julia's cousin who lives in Los Ojos. Known as the town's attractive girl, she gives Julia a tour of the local area, points out dangerous spots to avoid, and occasionally expresses judgmental views about others in the community.

Key Relationships

Cousin of Julia Reyes