If I Stay

Gayle Forman

If I Stay

Gayle Forman
45 pages1-hour read
Fiction
Novel
YA
Published in 2009

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Character List

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Major Characters

Mia is a seventeen-year-old high school senior and a dedicated cello prodigy. Unlike her punk-rocker parents, she prefers classical music and dreams of attending Juilliard. Following a catastrophic car crash on a snowy morning, she is left comatose. Her consciousness detaches from her physical body, allowing her to wander the hospital corridors and observe her loved ones as she weighs whether to fight for survival.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Mia's Mom

Daughter of Mia's Dad

Older Sister of Teddy

Romantic Partner of Adam

Best Friend of Kim

Granddaughter of Gran

Granddaughter of Gramps

Student of Dr. Christie

Adam is a college freshman and the lead singer and guitarist for the rising regional rock band Shooting Star. He loves dramatic, grand gestures and cares deeply for Mia, despite their contrasting tastes in music and their potentially diverging futures. Arriving at the hospital, he desperately attempts to bypass the strict visitation rules to see her in the intensive care unit.

Key Relationships

Boyfriend of Mia

Friend of Kim

Colleague of Brooke Vega

Opponent of Senior Nurse

Ally of Willow

Acquaintance of Mia's Dad

Kim is Mia's pragmatic, dark-haired best friend who shares her dry, sarcastic sense of humor. Raised in a devout Jewish family, she provides a voice of reason and stability. She fiercely supports Mia's classical music aspirations and sets aside her typical restraint to help Adam circumvent the hospital staff.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Mia

Friend of Adam

Acquaintance of Mia's Mom

A former "rocker chick" who grew up in a fractured household before building a close-knit, unconventional family. She is tough, highly idealistic, and encourages her daughter's classical music ambitions despite her own preference for punk icons like Debbie Harry.

Key Relationships

Mother of Mia

Wife of Mia's Dad

Mother of Teddy

Friend of Henry

Friend of Willow

A former punk-rock lyricist who traded his band career to become an English teacher and a supportive father. He is an empathetic man who views his transition from musician to family man as a joyful choice, frequently offering his daughter gentle wisdom about life.

Key Relationships

Father of Mia

Husband of Mia's Mom

Father of Teddy

Son of Gran

Son of Gramps

Best Friend of Henry

Supporting Characters

Mia's imaginative and cheerful seven-year-old brother. He shares a deeply affectionate bond with his sister, who cut his umbilical cord at birth and frequently acts as a second maternal figure to him.

Key Relationships

Younger Brother of Mia

Son of Mia's Mom

Son of Mia's Dad

Mia's paternal grandmother, originally from Massachusetts. She is a warm, talkative presence who first encouraged Mia to apply to Juilliard and offers gentle, continuous comfort by her hospital bedside.

Key Relationships

Grandmother of Mia

Wife of Gramps

Mother of Mia's Dad

Mia's paternal grandfather, who bears a strong physical resemblance to his son and grandson. He drove Mia to her music audition in San Francisco and demonstrates profound, selfless empathy as she lies in the intensive care unit.

Key Relationships

Grandfather of Mia

Husband of Gran

Father of Mia's Dad

Mia's father's best friend and former bandmate. He initially struggled to understand his friend's choice to leave their rock band for fatherhood but remains a close, constant fixture in the family's life.

Key Relationships

Best Friend of Mia's Dad

Husband of Willow

A nurse and close friend of Mia's family. She uses her professional connections with hospital administrators to bypass the strict visitation rules and secure access for visitors.

Key Relationships

Wife of Henry

Friend of Mia's Mom

Ally of Adam

A deeply empathetic intensive care nurse who tends to Mia's physical injuries with kindness. She buttons Mia's gown, adjusts her blankets, and treats her as though she is fully conscious and listening.

Key Relationships

Caretaker of Mia

Subordinate to Senior Nurse

An officious hospital staff member who strictly enforces institutional policies. She blocks Adam from visiting the intensive care unit because he is not an immediate family member.

Key Relationships

Antagonist of Adam

Supervisor of Nurse Ramirez

A local university music professor. He recognizes Mia's prodigious talent early in her life and agrees to instruct her on the cello.

Key Relationships

Teacher of Mia

A famous rock musician whose band is scheduled to perform with Shooting Star. Adam recruits her to create a loud, chaotic distraction at the hospital.

Key Relationships

Colleague of Adam

The driver of the four-ton truck involved in the collision with Mia's family car. He escapes the wreckage with minor physical injuries but faces the heavy emotional aftermath of the crash.

Key Relationships

Connected to Mia