Josh and Hazel's Guide to Not Dating

Christina Lauren

53 pages 1-hour read

Christina Lauren

Josh and Hazel's Guide to Not Dating

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2018

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Character List

Meet the key characters, with insights into their roles, motivations, and relationships—spoiler-free.

Major Characters

Hazel is a third-grade teacher in Portland, Oregon. She possesses a vibrant, eccentric personality that she refuses to dull for anyone, openly embracing her awkward moments and unique habits. Though she occasionally worries that her energetic nature makes her undatable, she seeks a connection built on radical authenticity.

Key Relationships

Close Friend of Josh Im

Best Friend of Emily Goldrich

Daughter of Aileen Pike

Ex-Girlfriend of Tyler Jones

Prospective Employee of Dave Goldrich

Acquaintance of Esther Im

Josh is a physical therapist who values routine and dependability. Shaped by his Korean American heritage and strong familial loyalty, he presents a calm and composed exterior. Reconnecting with Hazel disrupts his controlled world, forcing him to reevaluate his approach to relationships and his tolerance for chaos.

Key Relationships

Close Friend of Hazel Camille Bradford

Older Brother of Emily Goldrich

Son of Esther Im

Boyfriend of Tabitha/Tabby

Gym Buddy of Tyler Jones

Old Friend of Dax

Emily is a fifth-grade teacher, Josh's perceptive younger sister, and Hazel's loyal best friend. She often acts as an enthusiastic bridge to push the people she cares about together. She openly disapproves of her brother's current relationship and advocates for a closer bond between him and Hazel.

Key Relationships

Wife of Dave Goldrich

Best Friend of Hazel Camille Bradford

Younger Sister of Josh Im

Daughter of Esther Im

Supporting Characters

Dave is the principal at Riverview public school and Emily's husband. He is open-minded and sensitive to the people around him. He recognizes the value in Hazel's unique approach to life, making him willing to hire her at his school despite her unconventional demeanor.

Key Relationships

Husband of Emily Goldrich

Prospective Employer of Hazel Camille Bradford

Brother-in-Law of Josh Im

Aileen is Hazel's mother, a tall, blonde woman who models joyful nonconformity. Following a marriage to a man who criticized her for being embarrassing, she fully embraces her true self. She provides a safe, nonjudgmental harbor for Hazel, encouraging her daughter to never suppress her vibrant personality for a romantic partner.

Key Relationships

Romantic Partner of Glenn Ngo

Tabitha is Josh's long-distance girlfriend who lives in Los Angeles. She prioritizes superficial appearances and online aesthetics, maintaining a relationship with Josh that lacks deep emotional intimacy. Her unreliability acts as a persistent source of tension within Josh's social circle.

Key Relationships

Girlfriend of Josh Im

Disliked by Emily Goldrich

Tyler is Hazel's college ex-boyfriend who is currently in recovery. He views Hazel's wild persona as entertainment and expects her to conform to traditional relationship standards. He serves as a painful reminder of conditional affection for Hazel.

Key Relationships

Ex-Boyfriend of Hazel Camille Bradford

Gym Buddy of Josh Im

Esther is Josh and Emily's mother. She upholds traditional Korean familial values and appreciates dependability. She maintains a warm but observant presence in her children's lives.

Key Relationships

Mother of Josh Im

Mother of Emily Goldrich

Acquaintance of Hazel Camille Bradford

Dax is Josh's old high school friend, a veterinarian who breeds Shetland ponies. He adheres strictly to social conventions and possesses a highly judgmental attitude toward anything he deems abnormal.

Key Relationships

Old Friend of Josh Im

Acquaintance of Hazel Camille Bradford

Adam is a quiet former football player. Josh sets him up on a blind double date with Hazel, but he struggles to hold his own against Hazel's competitive energy during the trivia contest.

Key Relationships

Acquaintance of Cali

Cali is a school administrator set up with Josh by Hazel. During their double date, she finds herself sidelined when Josh and Hazel team up for trivia.

Key Relationships

Blind Date of Josh Im

Acquaintance of Adam

Sasha is a yoga instructor whom Hazel sets up with Josh. She is agreeable and enthusiastic about group outings but struggles to form a meaningful one-on-one connection with Josh.

Key Relationships

Blind Date of Josh Im

Acquaintance of Hazel Camille Bradford