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Kareem reflects on his name, which means generosity. He has always had an abundance of words and emotions, but now he feels nothing.
NFL Fact #18 explains that the area on the field where it is too far to kick a field goal but there is not enough space for an effective punt is called the dead zone. Kareem compares this to his struggles with how to grieve for Jido, whom he only knew through phone calls.
On Sunday, Jameelah forces Kareem out of bed, telling him to stop feeling sorry for himself and to do the dishes.
While Baba talks to Mama about funeral arrangements, the doorbell rings: Khale Afaf and Fadi are there with a plate of Syrian cheese pies shaped like footballs. Kareem wonders how Fadi can be so nice to him. Finding meaning in books, Kareem thinks of the main character in Locomotion, who writes poetry to work through his feelings after his parents’ deaths.
Baba makes Kareem go to school. With detention over, he goes to gym. When Austin is mean to him, Kareem asks if Austin is not allowed to play because his homework has suffered without Kareem’s help. They continue until Coach intervenes. When Austin calls Kareem a bully, Kareem tells Coach that he refuses to do Austin’s homework anymore and walks away. He can hear Coach talking angrily to Austin.
It is now February, and Baba still does not know when Mama will return. Kareem overhears him telling Jameelah that Shabeeha, government agents named after ghosts “because / they make people / disappear” (240), visited Mama’s parents’ house.
On Thursday, Coach asks Kareem to practice with the Spring Squad. Passing Austin on the bench, Coach tells Kareem to play quarterback. He tries, but the ball just falls, and he wonders how important football really is. Surprising himself, Kareem tells Coach that Austin should play quarterback. As Austin looks on in shock, Coach pulls Kareem aside.
When Kareem shares that his grandfather in Syria died, Coach kneels, and Kareem is reminded of Jido. Tears fall in giant sobs, and Kareem hugs himself. He believes that the pain will never go away.
NFL Fact #19 defines “encroachment” as a penalty committed before the snap when a defensive player moves across the line of scrimmage.
Coach tells Kareem that he does not have to play now but that once he is ready, he can join the team. Shocked, Kareem asks about Austin. Coach tenses and replies that Austin must improve both academically and athletically. Shocked because Baba has never made him feel inferior, Kareem gasps that Austin is Coach’s son. Standing, Coach tells him to think about football. Then, Kareem sees Austin, who heard everything, sneak away.
On the way home, Kareem wants to apologize to Fadi, so he writes a note slowly in Arabic. Ge gives his friend the letter when they drop him off.
NFL Fact #20 explains that “PAT” stands for the point after a touchdown that is kicked through the goal posts.
In his apology letter to Fadi, Kareem says that he should have been kinder when Fadi arrived from Syria. Kareem also admits to fearing being called Syrian and being considered different. Since his best friend moved away, Kareem has been trying to make the football team and be friends with Austin, but he does not want to compromise on being a good person. He would prefer not playing football if it means protecting a friend. Calling Fadi his friend, Kareem says that he hopes Fadi will forgive him but understands if it does not happen.
On Saturday, Baba sits with Kareem in his room and asks about the Bears poster on the floor. When Kareem does not say anything, Baba gently encourages him to talk. Kareem blurts out that he should not play football because of all the bad things he has done and because it is his fault that Jido is dead. Baba hugs Kareem and cries, too. Then, he tells his son that it was unlikely that Jido would have survived the flight to America. He emphasizes that Kareem is a good son and encourages him to be the first Syrian American player in the NFL.
Kareem feels better after talking with Baba, but the feeling only lasts until his father takes a phone call.
NFL Fact #21 explains that a “peanut punch” is a move named after a former Bears player who punched the ball from his opponent’s grip. Baba tells Kareem that Mama and Tete are missing.
After calling everyone in Syria, Baba and Kareem still know nothing, so they pray.
In the morning, Baba still has not heard from Mama. The news is on all day. As he listens, Kareem wonders if lawmakers realize that they are keeping mothers from their families. Today is the Super Bowl, but Kareem does not want to watch.
The Super Bowl ends with the Patriots coming back from a huge deficit. Kareem is inspired by their victory.
Later, Fadi shares his experience during the Syrian Revolution, protesting families being torn apart and children being imprisoned and tortured. The Shabeeha arrested people like Fadi’s father, who was eventually set free. Then, he describes bombs and tear gas and how his family fled. Fadi cries but says that his mother always encouraged him to be hopeful. Suddenly, Kareem gets an idea and some hope.
Kareem decides to ask to borrow his sister’s phone to put a plan into action.
The theme of The Crisis of Family Separation is evident in Jido’s death. Kareem struggles with grief after his grandfather’s death because he was never able to meet him in person. He thinks:
How do I explain
the
absence
of a person
in this world
who is tied to me
by
voice
but never by
touch? (231).
Kareem’s question highlights how difficult it can be to maintain family ties over great distances and how this ultimately makes the grieving process harder; the impact of family separation does not end with death.
The dangers posed by the war in Syria make the separation even harder to bear. Already distressed that Mama is stuck in Syria, the family is terrified when
Syrian government agents
came to Mama’s parents’ door,
asking questions.
Shabeeha.
[…]
Shabeeha in Syria
are named after ghosts
because
they make people disappear (240).
The nickname of government officials is ominous, illustrating the dangers of living in Syria under an autocratic regime. The fact that Mama and Tete go missing after this visit from the Shabeeha appears to confirm the worst fears of Baba and the children. In fact, Kareem says that his “stomach / feels like / it’s been punched” (258). His visceral reaction reveals his fear that harm has come to Mama. When Baba holds Kareem’s hands, the action signifies how little he can do to protect his family; he can do nothing about his wife’s physical danger and consequently can do little to spare Kareem emotional harm.
While worrying about his mother and grieving Jido, Kareem still finds the strength to make amends with Fadi, demonstrating the theme of Courage Emerging from Failure. He writes an apology letter in Arabic because it will be easier for Fadi to read; moreover, Kareem’s struggles with Arabic make the gesture an even more selfless one. The choice of language also symbolically affirms Kareem’s embrace of their shared Syrian identity and thus shows that Kareem finally has the courage to learn from his mistakes. The wording of the letter underscores this point; Kareem acknowledges that “there is no excuse” for the times he failed to stand up for Fadi, and he notes that he is “not doing this for anything in return” (251). Coupled with his decision to protest the executive order, Kareem’s apology letter demonstrates that he is maturing and learning the importance of doing the right thing even when doing so seems difficult or pointless.
Kareem’s apology is intertwined with his epiphany regarding the difference between True Friendship Versus Popularity. When Austin goes so far as to say that Kareem should be grateful for the opportunity to be his friend, Kareem retorts, “Friends don’t / use / friends!” (237). By calling out Austin’s actions as manipulation, Kareem finally reveals his understanding of the meaning of genuine friendship. What he had with Austin was not sincere; instead, it was exploitation. Kareem was forced to cheat for a chance to be accepted onto the football team. Kareem now sees that this was a mistake. True friendship is illuminated on the night of the Super Bowl, when Fadi comes by to support Kareem after he learns that Mama is missing in Syria. Later, when Jerry arrives too, Kareem knows that he has “two valuable friends right here” (263). Genuine friendship requires no manipulation or payment; instead, it offers love and support when times are good and when times are bad. Kareem’s realization of this fact marks growth and maturity.



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