Please Look After Mom

Kyung-Sook Shin

Please Look After Mom

Kyung-Sook Shin
44 pages1-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 2008

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Character List

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Major Characters

So-nyo is the 69-year-old matriarch of a rural South Korean family who goes missing in Seoul. Unbeknownst to her children, she suffers from severe headaches and memory loss. She spent her life tirelessly cooking, farming, and sacrificing her own needs to ensure her family's survival. Her sudden disappearance makes her children and husband confront how little they truly know about her inner life.

Key Relationships

Mother of Hyong-chol

Mother of Chi-hon

Secretly Connected to Eun-gyu Lee

Sister-in-Law of Sister-in-Law

Sister-in-Law of Kyun

So-nyo's unnamed husband is an elderly man who lives in the rural town of Chongup. Throughout their marriage, he frequently left home for months at a time to travel or pursue other interests, returning only when he needed his wife's care. Accustomed to walking quickly ahead of her in public, his lifelong habit of ignoring her physical discomfort becomes a source of immense guilt during the search.

Key Relationships

Husband of So-nyo Park

Father of Chi-hon

Father of Hyong-chol

Older Brother of Sister-in-Law

Older Brother of Kyun

Chi-hon is So-nyo's eldest daughter, a successful and independent novelist who frequently travels for work. She often grew easily frustrated with her mother's rural sensibilities and lacked patience for their phone calls. Following the disappearance, she questions her past behavior, realizing she viewed So-nyo merely as a mother figure rather than an individual woman.

Key Relationships

Daughter of So-nyo Park

Daughter of So-nyo's Husband

Younger Sister of Hyong-chol

Older Sister of The Youngest Daughter

Niece of Sister-in-Law

Girlfriend of Yu-bin

Hyong-chol is So-nyo's eldest son, who works as a marketing director selling units for an apartment development company. As a young man, he promised to become a prosecutor and provide a comfortable life for his mother. Though he achieved corporate success, he failed to keep this specific promise, leaving him burdened by heavy expectations and unspoken regrets.

Key Relationships

Older Brother of Chi-hon

Older Brother of The Youngest Daughter

Nephew of Sister-in-Law

Nephew of Kyun

The unnamed youngest daughter is a highly educated woman who attended a top university in Seoul. Despite her academic promise, she chose to become a stay-at-home mother to three children, a decision that shocked her mother. She struggles to balance her current domestic responsibilities with her desire to help search the city.

Key Relationships

Daughter of So-nyo Park

Daughter of So-nyo's Husband

Younger Sister of Chi-hon

Younger Sister of Hyong-chol

Niece of Sister-in-Law

Niece of Kyun

Supporting Characters

Eun-gyu Lee is a man from So-nyo's past who became a quiet, steadfast presence in her life. They met in the country when she was a younger woman, and he provided emotional support outside the awareness of her husband and children.

Key Relationships

Secretly Connected to So-nyo Park

So-nyo's unnamed sister-in-law is a hardened woman who lost her own husband in a fire at a young age. She frequently treated So-nyo harshly, acting more like a strict superior than a peer. With So-nyo missing, she faces her own deep regrets about her past criticisms.

Key Relationships

Sister-in-Law of So-nyo Park

Younger Sister of So-nyo's Husband

Older Sister of Kyun

Aunt of Chi-hon

Aunt of Hyong-chol

Kyun is So-nyo's husband's deceased younger brother. Bright and eager for an education, he shared a close bond with So-nyo and helped her with household chores. His sudden and tragic death deeply affected the family and became a source of ongoing pain.

Key Relationships

Brother-in-Law of So-nyo Park

Younger Brother of So-nyo's Husband

Younger Brother of Sister-in-Law

Tae-hee Hong is a young woman who works at the Hope House orphanage. She reveals a hidden side of So-nyo's routine to the family, explaining how the elderly woman regularly visited the facility to clean and donate money.

Key Relationships

Volunteer Companion to So-nyo Park

Acquaintance of So-nyo's Husband

Yu-bin is Chi-hon's boyfriend. He attempts to offer companionship and distraction as Chi-hon struggles with her mother's disappearance, eventually suggesting a trip abroad to help her cope with the stress.

Key Relationships

Boyfriend of Chi-hon