The Gap and the Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success

Dan Sullivan, Dr. Benjamin Hardy

The Gap and the Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success

Dan Sullivan, Dr. Benjamin Hardy
38 pages1-hour read
Nonfiction
Book
Adult
Published in 2021

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Background

Psychological Context: The Broaden-and-Build Theory of Positive Emotions

The Gap and the Gain’s central premise—that measuring progress backward fosters happiness and success—aligns closely with the broaden-and-build theory of positive emotions. Developed by psychologist Barbara L. Fredrickson, this theory explains how positive emotions broaden people’s thinking and help build enduring psychological, social, and physical resources over time. According to this model, positive emotions are not merely fleeting rewards but important evolutionary tools for personal growth. Fredrickson argues that positive emotions broaden individuals’ momentary thought-action repertoires while building lasting personal resources over time. This framework offers a useful psychological lens for understanding the book’s core argument (Fredrickson, B L. “The role of positive emotions in positive psychology. The broaden-and-build theory of positive emotions.” The American psychologist vol. 56, 3, 2001).


Sullivan and Hardy’s “GAIN” mindset closely reflects this theory. The act of measuring progress backward is designed to intentionally generate positive emotions such as pride, gratitude, and confidence. The book argues that these feelings, in turn, create an “upward spiral” (102) of self-efficacy and motivation. This process resembles the broaden-and-build cycle: By encouraging readers to focus on their progress rather than an ideal, the GAIN mindset promotes a positive emotional state that can broaden perspective, increase resilience, and support future growth. The book thus presents positive reflection not as a passive, feel-good exercise, but as a deliberate practice that supports continued learning, resilience, and personal development.

Psychological Context: Hedonic Adaptation and the Futility of Chasing Ideals

The psychological phenomenon of hedonic adaptation, often called the “hedonic treadmill,” provides important psychological context for the central problem The Gap and the Gain aim to solve: why highly successful people often feel unfulfilled. This principle describes the human tendency to return to a baseline level of happiness, regardless of major positive achievements. As Psychology Today explains, “The hedonic treadmill is the observed tendency of humans to quickly return to a relatively stable level of happiness despite major positive or negative life events. We work hard to achieve a goal, anticipating the happiness it will bring, but the thrill of achievement quickly wears off” (Fagan, Abigail. “Hedonic Treadmill.” Psychology Today, 12 Nov. 2025). This innate tendency to normalize success helps explain why the book portrays chasing a future “Ideal” as a source of ongoing dissatisfaction.


Sullivan and Hardy frame the “GAP” mindset as closely reflecting this treadmill. The book’s example of the entrepreneur Edward who constantly moves his financial goalpost from $5 million to $10 million and beyond, illustrates this cycle. Each achievement provides no lasting satisfaction because he quickly adapts to his new level of success, and a new, more distant ideal immediately takes its place. The authors present that the “GAIN” as a way of counteracting this treadmill. Instead of pursuing ever-receding future goals, measuring backward anchors satisfaction in past progress, encouraging readers to recognize how far they have come rather than how far they still have to go. The book therefore presents this approach as a practical strategy for countering hedonic adaptation by changing how success is measured.

Authorial Context: The Origins of the “GAP and GAIN” Framework

The core concepts of The Gap and the Gain were developed through Dan Sullivan's work coaching entrepreneurs rather than in an academic setting. In 1988, Sullivan co-founded Strategic Coach with Babs Smith, an entrepreneurial coaching company that has since worked with more than 20,000 entrepreneurs (“Dan Sullivan.” Strategic Coach). According to the company, this extensive coaching experience informed Sullivan's development of the GAP and GAIN framework. This history helps explain the book's practical approach to personal and professional growth.


This real-world laboratory gave rise to the GAP and the GAIN framework. The book’s introduction recounts how Sullivan conceived of the idea during a live coaching session to explain to a successful but frustrated client why he felt perpetually dissatisfied. It was a direct response to a recurring challenge among high achievers: Despite their success, they remained unhappy because they measured themselves against an ever-moving “ideal.” This origin story demonstrates that the framework developed from Sullivan’s coaching experience rather than from academic theory. The book presents it as a practical approach to addressing the psychological patterns that can accompany ambition and success.

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