The Gap and the Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success

Dan Sullivan, Dr. Benjamin Hardy

The Gap and the Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success

Dan Sullivan, Dr. Benjamin Hardy
38 pages1-hour read
Nonfiction
Book
Adult
Published in 2021

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Character List

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Major Characters

Dan Sullivan is an experienced entrepreneurial coach and the creator of the GAP and GAIN framework. Having advised business owners for decades, he recognizes a persistent pattern of dissatisfaction among accomplished individuals. He focuses on helping clients measure their progress backward against their starting point rather than forward against an unreachable ideal.

Key Relationships

Co-author of Dr. Benjamin Hardy

Business Partner of Babs Smith

Coach of Bob

Coach of Howard Getson

Observer of Edward

Colleague of Dean Jackson

Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist who collaborates with Dan Sullivan to translate coaching concepts into a structured narrative. He uses psychological research to explain the benefits of measuring progress backward. He openly shares his own struggles with living in a state of constant comparison regarding his family life, demonstrating that the framework applies to personal spheres as well as business.

Key Relationships

Co-author of Dan Sullivan

Observer of Trevor Lawrence

Observer of Sandi McCoy

Bob is a successful entrepreneurial client who struggles with chronic unhappiness. Despite his company's recent progress and objective success, he immediately dismisses his achievements because he constantly measures his current state against an ever-receding ideal. His specific situation prompts Dan Sullivan to draw the foundational visual diagram of the book.

Key Relationships

Client of Dan Sullivan

Supporting Characters

Dan Jansen is an Olympic speed skater who serves as an example of harmonious passion and intrinsic motivation. Competing under the heavy pressure of feeling an external demand to win in honor of his deceased sister, he initially struggles to perform at his peak. He eventually shifts his mindset toward gratitude for his past progress, transforming his approach to competition and leading to a gold medal.

Key Relationships

Case Study Subject of Dan Sullivan

Howard Getson is an investor and a client of the Strategic Coach program. When confronted with a $2 million financial loss in 2008, he applies an analytical tool to review his setbacks rather than dwelling on failure. He uses this objective reflection to extract lessons about risk and market behavior, eventually developing an AI-driven investment strategy.

Key Relationships

Client of Dan Sullivan

Richie and Natalie Norton are a married couple who endure a series of hardships, including the tragic loss of their infant son. Instead of letting grief permanently halt their lives, they make a conscious choice to find meaning in their experience. They channel their energy into advocacy, demonstrating how shifting one's mindset applies to deep personal trauma.

Key Relationships

Parents of Gavin Norton

Case Study Subject of Dan Sullivan

Gavin is the infant son of Richie and Natalie Norton. His passing deeply affects his parents and becomes a central catalyst for their commitment to living purposefully and advocating for organ donation.

Key Relationships

Jill Bishop is a physical therapist who works with children with severe disabilities. Working in a high-stress field where progress often seems slow, she uses the practice of measuring backward to remind herself of the significant milestones her patients achieve over time.

Key Relationships

Physical Therapist of Rosie

Rosie is a child with a rare brain disorder who receives physical therapy from Jill Bishop. Despite initial medical claims that she was incapable of learning, she makes significant progress over time, serving as a clear example of how daily routines obscure long-term growth.

Key Relationships

Patient of Jill Bishop

Babs Smith is an entrepreneur who co-founded the Strategic Coach company alongside Dan Sullivan. Together, they build a coaching business that works with tens of thousands of entrepreneurs, creating the real-world environment where the book's frameworks are tested and developed.

Key Relationships

Business Partner of Dan Sullivan

Colleen Bowler is a financial advisor who realizes she has a habit of negative thinking. After receiving feedback from both her team and her son about her inability to celebrate successes, she learns to consciously recognize and change her mindset using the book's core vocabulary.

Key Relationships

Case Study Subject of Dan Sullivan

Trevor Lawrence is a successful collegiate football quarterback. He exemplifies harmonious passion and intrinsic motivation by publicly stating that he does not require football to feel worthy, allowing him to perform at a peak level without an unhealthy attachment to external validation.

Key Relationships

Case Study Subject of Dr. Benjamin Hardy

Edward is an investor who grows his portfolio massively but remains perpetually unhappy and insecure. He continually raises his financial targets, demonstrating the destructive nature of the hedonic treadmill before eventually withdrawing his money from the market in fear.

Key Relationships

Case Study Subject of Dan Sullivan

Jeff is a man who chooses to approach the end of his marriage with compassion and gratitude. By reframing his divorce through a positive lens, he minimizes the negative impact on his children and maintains a constructive relationship with his ex-wife.

Key Relationships

Case Study Subject of Dan Sullivan

Sandi McCoy is a woman who loses over 240 pounds. She achieves her goals only after letting go of others' expectations and defining success through her own internal reference points, demonstrating the importance of self-determination.

Key Relationships

Case Study Subject of Dr. Benjamin Hardy

Dean Jackson is a marketing expert who provides a practical tool for defining personal success criteria. His prompts encourage people to shift their attention away from external validation and establish their own internal standards for achievement.

Key Relationships

Colleague of Dan Sullivan

Kim Butler is a former collegiate soccer player whose coach implemented a specific time limit for acknowledging disappointment. This boundary allowed her team to shift their mindset deliberately, helping them rebound from a losing streak to capture an NCAA championship.

Key Relationships

Case Study Subject of Dan Sullivan

Lee Brower is an entrepreneur who utilizes six filtering questions to make decisions. His model provides readers with a practical example of how to establish clear internal criteria for success rather than relying on external validation.

Key Relationships

Colleague of Dan Sullivan