The Joys of Motherhood

Buchi Emecheta

The Joys of Motherhood

Buchi Emecheta
49 pages1-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 1979

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Character List

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Major Characters

Nnu Ego is a young Ibo woman whose identity and self-worth are deeply tied to her desire to become a mother. Raised in a traditional rural chiefdom, she tries to adapt to the urban, colonial environment of Lagos. She is a dedicated and hardworking woman who measures her success by her ability to bear and raise children, particularly sons. Her pursuit of successful motherhood directs every major decision in her life.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Nwokocha Agbadi

Daughter of Ona

Former wife of Amatokwu

Senior co-wife to Adaku

Mother of Ngozi

Mother of Oshia

Mother of Adim

Mother of Taiwo

Mother of Kehinde

Mother of Nnamdio

Friend of Ato

Nnaife is Nnu Ego’s second husband, a short and stocky man who works in Lagos as a domestic servant for British colonists. He has a laid-back attitude toward life and often avoids imminent worries until they force his hand. He is susceptible to colonial influences and defers to his British employers, viewing his modern urban lifestyle as perfectly acceptable despite his wife's traditional misgivings.

Key Relationships

Husband of Nnu Ego

Husband of Adaku

Father of Oshia

Father of Adim

Father of Taiwo

Father of Kehinde

Friend of Ubani

Employee of Mrs. Meers

Adaku is Nnaife’s junior wife, joining the family in accordance with Ibo custom after the death of her first husband. She is an ambitious and clever woman who brings a cultivated, youthful appearance to the household. As a junior wife without sons, she feels the intense pressure of patriarchal expectations and proves to be a savvy businesswoman in the local market to secure her own standing.

Key Relationships

Junior co-wife to Nnu Ego

Mother of Dumbi

Supporting Characters

Agbadi is Nnu Ego’s father and a revered local chief in the rural village of Ibuza. He exemplifies the traditional masculine ideal of Ibo culture, possessing wealth, success, and multiple wives. He holds a deep, possessive affection for his lover, Ona, and exerts a powerful, lifelong influence over his daughter’s personal standards.

Key Relationships

Lover of Ona

Father of Nnu Ego

Husband of Agunwa

Friend of Idayi

Ona is Nnu Ego’s mother, a beautiful woman known for combining stubbornness with arrogance. She is caught between her devotion to her sonless father and her love for Agbadi, managing the competing demands of the men in her life. She maintains a daily steely mask to hide her emotional vulnerabilities.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Obi Umunna

Mother of Nnu Ego

Amatokwu is a local farmer in Ibuza and Nnu Ego’s first husband. He represents the traditional expectations of a rural Ibo man, valuing a wife primarily for her ability to provide him with an heir. When his marriage to Nnu Ego does not produce children, he immediately pivots to securing another wife to fulfill his needs.

Key Relationships

Former husband of Nnu Ego

Former son-in-law of Nwokocha Agbadi

Oshia is Nnu Ego’s eldest surviving son, growing up in the busy environment of Lagos. As the firstborn male, he absorbs the patriarchal norms around him and expects preferential treatment regarding food and chores. He receives the bulk of his mother’s resources to fund his education, holding the family's hopes for future prosperity.

Key Relationships

Son of Nnu Ego

Brother of Adim

Stepson of Adaku

Adim is Nnu Ego and Nnaife's second surviving son. Growing up in the shadow of his older brother, he attends a cheaper local school because the family's funds go to Oshia. He observes the traditional hierarchy that places all resources on the firstborn son and desires to forge his own independent path.

Key Relationships

Son of Nnu Ego

Brother of Oshia

Taiwo is one of Nnu Ego’s older twin daughters. She is pragmatic and focused on the present moment. In a family that prioritizes male education, Taiwo is pulled from school to assist her mother with market trading and domestic tasks in preparation for an eventual arranged marriage.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Nnu Ego

Twin sister of Kehinde

Daughter of Nnaife Owulum

Kehinde is Nnu Ego’s other older twin daughter. Described as a deep and individualistic thinker, she is less inclined to blindly follow the traditional paths laid out by her parents. She helps with the family’s small business while forming her own opinions about her future and her choice of partner.

Key Relationships

Daughter of Nnu Ego

Twin sister of Taiwo

Daughter of Nnaife Owulum

Ubani is a fellow domestic worker in Lagos who serves as a cook. He is a steadying presence for Nnaife, offering advice on how to handle urban employment and family crises. He helps connect Nnaife with alternative jobs, such as grass cutting, when domestic work dries up.

Key Relationships

Friend of Nnaife Owulum

Husband of Cordelia

Cordelia is the wife of Ubani, the cook. As a neighbor to Nnu Ego in the Lagos servants' compound, she offers practical advice and support, particularly regarding the realities of life married to men employed by white colonists.

Key Relationships

Friend of Nnu Ego

Wife of Ubani

Nwakusor is an Ibo dockworker living in Lagos. He is a compassionate neighbor who intervenes during Nnu Ego's moment of extreme crisis. He remains a friendly face in the local Ibo community, participating in neighborhood gatherings and offering cultural guidance.

Key Relationships

Neighbor of Nnu Ego

Husband of Ato

Ato is a childhood friend of Nnu Ego from Ibuza who now lives in Lagos as Nwakusor's wife. She provides a vital link to Nnu Ego’s past and brings her comforting gifts and encouragement from their rural hometown to help her survive city life.

Key Relationships

Friend of Nnu Ego

Wife of Nwakusor

Mrs. Meers is the British employer of Nnaife and Ubani. She represents the colonial presence in Lagos, exerting control over her servants' personal lives by insisting they adhere to Christian marriage customs while relying heavily on their cheap domestic labor.

Key Relationships

Employer of Nnaife Owulum

Idayi is a close friend and advisor to Chief Agbadi in Ibuza. He serves as a voice of reason and modernity in the village, counseling Agbadi to seek a forward-looking husband for Nnu Ego after her first marriage fails.

Key Relationships

Friend of Nwokocha Agbadi

Mama Abby is a neighbor in Lagos who keeps a watchful eye on Nnu Ego’s children. She acts as a supportive member of the community, helping to read official letters and offering assistance when Nnu Ego faces bureaucratic or medical emergencies.

Key Relationships

Neighbor of Nnu Ego

Adankwo is the eldest widow of Nnaife’s brother. Residing in Ibuza, she reinforces patriarchal norms by encouraging Nnu Ego to protect her status in Lagos. She refuses to relocate to the city, instead arranging for Nnaife to marry a younger woman.

Key Relationships

Sister-in-law of Nnu Ego

Nnamdio is Nnu Ego’s third son. Unlike his older brothers who are sent to Western schools in the city, he is born in his mother's rural hometown and is strongly associated with his grandfather, Agbadi, showing an inclination toward traditional pursuits.

Key Relationships

Son of Nnu Ego

Grandson of Nwokocha Agbadi

Ngozi is Nnu Ego’s firstborn son. His arrival brings immense joy and a sense of cultural validation to Nnu Ego, but his sudden death shortly after birth plunges her into severe despair and sets the tone for her ongoing anxieties about motherhood.

Key Relationships

Son of Nnu Ego