The Other Bennet Sister

Janice Hadlow

The Other Bennet Sister

Janice Hadlow
71 pages2-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 2020

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Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of emotional abuse and death.

Part 2, Chapter 31 Summary

Two years after her sisters’ weddings, Mary reflects on the dramatic changes to her family: Lydia’s elopement with Mr. Wickham, which was salvaged by Mr. Darcy’s intervention; Elizabeth’s and Jane’s subsequent marriages to Mr. Darcy and Mr. Bingley; and Kitty’s marriage to a clergyman. After her sisters left, Mary’s life at home grew lonely and oppressive. She was forced to spend long hours with her querulous mother, who viewed her as a burden. Mary recalls overhearing a conversation in which Mrs. Phillips spoke sympathetically about Mary, suggesting she could flourish now her sisters have left Longbourn. However, Mrs. Bennet doubted Mary’s marriage prospects and described her as a burden to be borne.


The family’s fragile stability was shattered when Mr. Bennet died unexpectedly in his sleep. Though the entail on their home had made his death a long-discussed possibility, the event was a deep shock. Mary was especially devastated, mourning not only her father but also the lost hope of ever earning his pride and approval.

Part 2, Chapter 32 Summary

Following Mr. Bennet’s death, Mary and Mrs. Bennet move north to live with Jane and Mr. Bingley. Mrs. Bennet settles in contentedly, but Mary feels uncomfortable. She finds Jane’s kindness to be polite but distant, making Mary feel like a dependent. Her stay is made unbearable by the presence of Caroline Bingley, who is still bitter about losing Mr. Darcy to Elizabeth. Caroline takes out her frustration on Mary, subjecting her to a relentless campaign of subtle insults about her clothes, her studiousness, and her lack of social graces.


One evening, Mary, alone, sits down at the piano she was playing when her father humiliatingly ended her performance at the Netherfield ball. As she finishes playing a passionate piece, Caroline appears and urges Mary to continue playing, adding, “Or perhaps you fear you have delighted us enough already?” (159). Mary resolves to no longer endure being Caroline’s victim. She writes to Elizabeth asking for refuge at Pemberley.

Part 2, Chapter 33 Summary

Mary arrives at Pemberley and is greeted warmly by Elizabeth. The sisters fall into a comfortable routine, and Mary begins to feel her anxieties ease, daring to hope she might find a permanent home there. Her peace is disrupted by the return of Mr. Darcy and his sister, Georgiana Darcy. Mary quickly senses that while Darcy is polite, he is uncomfortable with her presence, viewing her as an intrusion on his family’s privacy.


Elizabeth’s attention naturally shifts to her husband and Georgiana, a timid girl who adores her new sister-in-law. Mary watches as Elizabeth bestows on Georgiana the affection and encouragement Mary herself has always craved. Georgiana is a talented pianist, and Mary feels she cannot compare. The painful realization of her outsider status crystallizes when she observes the Darcys, Georgiana, and their son, Fitzwilliam, as a perfect, self-contained family unit around the piano. Understanding there is no place for her, Mary tells Elizabeth she must leave. Elizabeth does not press hard for reasons but is surprised at Mary’s choice of destination. Mary announces her intention to visit Mr. and Mrs. Collins at Longbourn, explaining that she needs to be somewhere familiar. She hopes for practical advice from her old friend Charlotte.

Part 2, Chapter 34 Summary

Upon arriving at a much-improved Longbourn, Mary is greeted by Charlotte, who now carries herself with an air of prosperous self-possession. Charlotte then gives Mary a tour of the transformed house, proudly pointing out all the refurbishments. The changes are so extensive that Mary feels more like a stranger than a former resident.


Charlotte introduces Mary to her toddler son, William Collins, whom she dotes on. Later, in her old bedroom, Mary is happy to find Mrs. Hill, the Bennet family’s former housekeeper, who has stayed on with the Collinses. Mrs. Hill expresses concern and curiosity about Mary’s plain wardrobe and precarious situation, gently suggesting she should have nicer things.

Part 2, Chapter 35 Summary

At dinner, a flustered Mr. Collins arrives late from a meeting with the bishop. Throughout the meal, Charlotte expertly manages her husband, anticipating his needs and guiding the conversation. When Mr. Collins praises her as an excellent manager, she avoids his affectionate gaze and does not respond to his touch. Mary observes a distinct coolness in Charlotte’s otherwise dutiful behavior. After the women withdraw, Mary is left with a troubling image of Mr. Collins sitting alone at the head of his table.


Later that night, Mary reflects on her first day back at Longbourn. She concludes that Charlotte has achieved the security and status she desired through her marriage and her improvements to the house. By all practical measures, her choice seems to have been a success. However, Mary cannot shake the impression of Charlotte’s emotional distance from her husband and his resulting solitude. She resolves to use rational observation to understand their dynamic.

Part 2, Chapter 36 Summary

Mary settles into a quiet routine at Longbourn, playing the piano and helping Charlotte in the garden. She soon notices that Mr. and Mrs. Collins spend very little time together. Mr. Collins is frequently occupied building a garden arbor—a project Charlotte suggested. One day, Mary sees him digging with furious energy before slumping against a wall in despair. She realizes he is deeply unhappy.


Observing them more closely, Mary sees Mr. Collins repeatedly try to engage with his wife, only for Charlotte to politely evade him. This dynamic prompts Mary to undertake a scholarly investigation into the nature of happiness. She enters her late father’s library for the first time since his death, finds the philosophical books she needs, and begins her study.

Part 2, Chapter 37 Summary

Mary’s solitary study in the library is soon interrupted when Mr. Collins begins to use the room for his own work. They agree to share the space in silence.


Mary asks Mrs. Hill if she thinks the Collinses are a good match. Mrs. Hill is noncommittal, stating only that they do not argue. Mary, however, contrasts them with the affectionate Darcys and realizes the truth: Charlotte deliberately engineers her life to avoid her husband’s company. She has made herself emotionally inaccessible, and Mr. Collins’s unhappiness stems from his awareness of this fact.

Part 2, Chapter 38 Summary

After several days of sharing the library in silence, Mr. Collins’s curiosity gets the better of him, and he asks Mary about her studies. He examines her books—works by Locke, Paley, Rousseau, and Hume—and is taken aback by their scholarly nature, admitting he assumed she was secretly reading novels. When he asks if her inquiry has a personal application, Mary asserts that the search for happiness concerns everyone. Mr. Collins grows thoughtful and leaves her to her work.

Part 2, Chapter 39 Summary

A few days later, Mr. Collins gives Mary a copy of Aristotle’s Ethics, suggesting it is relevant to her study and proposing they discuss it together. Mary is deeply grateful for his interest in her intellectual pursuits. They begin a series of animated discussions, and Mary’s confidence grows as she articulates her ideas.


Their new partnership does not go unnoticed. Charlotte remarks on the time Mary is spending in the library and warns that Mr. Collins can be “fatiguing.” When Mary innocently suggests Charlotte join their studies, Charlotte’s tone becomes sharp, and she abruptly leaves. Later, at dinner, Mary senses a new, subtle watchfulness in Charlotte’s manner, though she tries to convince herself she is mistaken.

Part 2, Chapter 40 Summary

Mr. Collins, enthusiastic about Mary’s progress, proposes to teach her Greek and gives her his old grammar book. Mary is thrilled and diligently begins her lessons. One afternoon, Mr. Collins proudly has Mary recite the Greek alphabet for Charlotte. Mary stumbles through the recitation, unsettled by Charlotte’s “appraising stare.”


After Mr. Collins praises Mary, Charlotte offers a chilly and pointed compliment, making her displeasure clear. Later, after Mr. Collins leaves on business, Charlotte claims to feel tired and retires early, leaving Mary alone. Mary realizes Charlotte resents the time she spends with Mr. Collins but dismisses the idea that she is jealous.

Part 2, Chapter 41 Summary

The housekeeper, Mrs. Hill, warns Mary about her library sessions with Mr. Collins. While she knows Mary has no designs on him, she points out that Mr. Collins now spends more time with Mary than with his wife. Mary is mortified, realizing she has been foolish. She resolves to end the lessons immediately.


Mary tells Mr. Collins they can no longer study together, explaining that the situation is inappropriate. He does not argue but confesses his deep loneliness and how much he has enjoyed her company. He then admits his regret over his hasty marriage proposal years ago, stating that if he had been wiser, he would have chosen Mary. Mary is consumed with fury, recalling how he had failed to see that she was the only one who might have suited him, but she masters herself. She advises him to seek companionship with Charlotte and then flees the room. Unseen by either of them, Charlotte has been watching them talking from the garden.

Part 2, Chapter 42 Summary

In the following days, Mary and Mr. Collins avoid each other. A newly cheerful Charlotte takes charge of conversations, filling awkward silences and showing her husband an uncharacteristic warmth and affection, which he receives with grateful surprise. She informs Mary that she and Mr. Collins will now be working together on the garden arbor and pointedly tells Mary she will have the library to herself. Mary returns to the library but finds no pleasure in studying alone. The room feels empty, and she feels lonely as she watches the Collinses working together outside.

Part 2, Chapter 43 Summary

Mr. Collins announces that his patroness, Lady Catherine de Bourgh, will be visiting. Because he will be away at a meeting, Charlotte and Mary must receive her alone. The imperious Lady Catherine arrives and, after critiquing the house, turns her interrogation on Mary. She questions Mary’s family situation and identifies her bleak marriage prospects.


Charlotte intervenes, ostensibly praising Mary’s accomplishments—her piano playing, her scholarship, her study of Greek. Lady Catherine dismisses Greek as unsuitable for a lady, then insists Mary is perfectly suited for the role of a governess. She announces her intention to find her a position immediately. Lady Catherine ignores Mary’s horrified protests, viewing the matter as a charitable project.

Part 2, Chapter 44 Summary

After Lady Catherine departs, Mary angrily confronts Charlotte for encouraging the idea of her becoming a governess. Charlotte calmly admits that while she did not intend it, she sees the advantages of the plan. She tells Mary bluntly that her presence at Longbourn has become a disruption. She confesses that Mary’s visit has inadvertently shown her how to be a kinder wife to Mr. Collins, which will benefit them both, but says their chance of happiness is greater if Mary is gone. Having been, in her view, candid, Charlotte offers a final piece of advice: Mary must make a bold decision and start a new life elsewhere.

Part 2, Chapter 45 Summary

Realizing she must leave Longbourn, Mary feels trapped. She cannot return to the Bingleys, and Pemberley is not an option. She then remembers a kind letter from her aunt, Mrs. Gardiner, who had offered Mary a home with her family in London. Spurred by the threat of Lady Catherine finding her a governess position, Mary writes and asks to visit. The Gardiners reply with a warm and immediate welcome.


Charlotte receives the news with equanimity and offers to write to Lady Catherine explaining that family circumstances have called Mary away. On the day Mary leaves, the Collins family sees her off. As she settles into the carriage, Mr. Collins wordlessly hands her a small parcel. Miles down the road, Mary opens it to find the Greek dictionary. Tucked inside is a note with a Greek quote they had once discussed: “Happiness depends on ourselves” (215). Determined not to cry, Mary puts the book away and faces the road to London and her uncertain future.

Part 2 Analysis

Following her father’s death, Mary is cast into a world in which her existence is contingent on others' hospitality, thereby demonstrating Economic Vulnerability as Social Coercion. At the Bingleys’ home, her dependent state makes her an easy target for Caroline Bingley’s cruel and relentless insults. At Pemberley, though she is treated with formal politeness, she is an intrusion on the Darcys’ domestic intimacy. Her observation of the Darcy family as a “perfectly composed,” self-contained unit around the piano crystallizes her status as a dependent outsider. In both households, her lack of a home, fortune, or marital prospects renders her powerless. This vulnerability culminates in Lady Catherine de Bourgh’s visit to Longbourn, where Mary’s unmarried status is treated as a social problem to be solved through high-handed charity. Lady Catherine’s plan to place Mary as a governess is a direct consequence of her precarity, framing her intellectual accomplishments as qualifications for a life of genteel servitude. Mary’s painful journey through her sisters’ grand houses reveals that for a Regency woman without independent means, her presence is ultimately a liability.


Nevertheless, Mary’s intellectual life takes a transformative turn when Mr. Collins offers her his old Greek grammar book. This marks a departure from the socially acceptable, moralistic study prescribed for women in conduct books toward the serious classical education considered the “exclusive preserve of gentlemen” (206). The ensuing partnership, built on shared scholarly interests in Aristotle and the Greek language, provides Mary with the intellectual peerage she has long craved. For the first time, her mind is valued for its inherent capacity, illustrating her first steps toward Subverting Patriarchy Through Intellectual Independence. By engaging with Mary as a peer, Mr. Collins fosters a non-romantic, non-familial bond based on mutual intellectual respect. However, this partnership proves socially disruptive. Charlotte’s growing resentment and Mrs. Hill’s warning about “appearances” reveal that a woman’s intellectual life, especially when shared with another woman’s husband, is perceived as a threat to the social order. The intellectual bond is misinterpreted as a romantic one because it destabilizes a patriarchal world where men and women are expected to interact primarily through the channels of courtship and family.


Mary’s observations of Charlotte’s marriage provide a stark case study in the compromises women make for security. Upon her arrival at Longbourn, Mary notes Charlotte’s “air of prosperity and self-possession” and the meticulous improvements to the house (168), which stand as proof of her success. Yet, she quickly perceives the emotional cost of this stability, witnessing Charlotte’s cool detachment from a lonely and unhappy Mr. Collins. Charlotte has strategically engineered a life of “separate territories” to minimize contact with her husband, turning their marriage into a well-managed but hollow performance of propriety. The construction of the garden arbor becomes a metaphor for this project as the enterprise, ostensibly undertaken for mutual benefit, primarily serves to occupy her husband and keep him at a distance. Charlotte’s final confrontation with Mary is a moment of brutal honesty. By confessing that Mary’s presence is a “disrupt[ion]” and that she is “obliged to be selfish again” to protect her domestic peace (210), Charlotte confirms that her actions are driven by a clear-eyed pragmatism born of her own past vulnerability. She represents an alternative path for a woman facing economic hardship: one of calculated sacrifice, where emotional fulfillment is knowingly traded for the non-negotiable prize of a home and social standing.


Mary’s rage when Mr. Collins’s confesses that he should have married her illustrates the theme of Emotional Awakening as True Self-Knowledge. After years of suppressing her feelings and relying on detached reason, she is suddenly consumed by a “fury so intense that she wanted to hammer her fists at him” (199). This visceral reaction conveys her recognition of a lost opportunity for a life of security and, more importantly, intellectual companionship. Mary’s raw emotion signals a moment of emotional truth, revealing the depth of her longing for a place in the world. Her intellectual inquiry into the nature of happiness is suddenly answered by the undeniable truth of her own heart. This internal breakthrough is bookended by Mr. Collins’s parting gift: the Greek dictionary containing a note that reads, “Happiness depends on ourselves” (215). Having been systematically stripped of all external supports—family approval, a secure home, and intellectual partnership—Mary is forced to abandon the hope of rescue and confront this new, hard-won principle of self-reliance.


The narrative uses symbolism to map Mary’s painful psychological journey through this period of dislocation. The piano at the Bingley residence provides a link to her past public humiliation at the Netherfield ball. When Caroline Bingley echoes Mr. Bennet’s shaming words, the instrument becomes a symbol of Mary’s recurring social failure and the inescapability of past wounds. Later, the piano at Pemberley reinforces her sense of inadequacy and exclusion, as she feels she cannot compete with the accomplished Georgiana and is shut out of the family’s intimate musical circle. In sharp contrast, the Greek dictionary given to her by Mr. Collins is a talisman of potential intellectual fulfillment and mutual respect.

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