One of Us

Elizabeth Day

54 pages 1-hour read

Elizabeth Day

One of Us

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2025

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Symbols & Motifs

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of addiction, substance use, sexual content, gender discrimination, and death by suicide.

Invitations

The motif of invitations in One of Us underscores the novel's elite setting. Invitations are depicted as a means of negotiating power. They function as coded instruments through which the characters regulate belonging and manipulate perception. Whether extended, withheld, or strategically deployed, they expose the transactional logic underpinning relationships in this privileged environment.


The motif is first established when Martin receives an invitation to Fliss Fitzmaurice’s funeral. On the surface, the invitation conforms with the traditional etiquette of mourning with its black edges and request for donations to charity. Yet its language performs a more calculated function. By foregrounding an addiction charity, the Fitzmaurice family subtly conveys a public narrative that Fliss’s substance use was the cause of her death. This emphasis on her personal struggles deflects scrutiny from the true circumstances that resulted in her death by suicide. The invitation presents a version of events that protects the family’s reputation while drawing on the authority and decorum associated with elite rituals. At the same time, the formality and “luxurious heft” of the invitation signal the Fitzmaurices’ wealth and social standing.


Invitations serve as a form of social currency in the novel, particularly for characters on the margins of elite society, contributing to Day’s exploration of The Fickle Nature of Loyalty in Elite Circles. For Martin and Richard Take, being invited to the funeral represents an opportunity to regain proximity to power. Ben Fitzmaurice, in particular, treats invitations as strategic investments, extending them only to individuals he believes will serve his political ambitions. In this way, the act of invitation becomes a means of enforcing hierarchy. Invitations are also weaponized within personal conflicts. Serena Fitzmaurice’s decision to invite Martin to Fliss’s funeral without Ben’s knowledge is an act of calculated revenge and disruption. By reintroducing Martin, a figure tied to Ben’s past wrongdoing, into a highly visible and emotionally charged setting, Serena destabilizes Ben’s carefully managed public image.


Martin’s later invitation to an informal kitchen supper at Tipworth Priory illustrates how invitations can create the illusion of restored intimacy. The informality of the setting, in contrast to the funeral's rigid ceremonial tone, suggests a more genuine form of acceptance, implying that Martin has been welcomed back into Ben’s inner circle. However, in reality, this gesture reflects another recalibration of utility. By outing Martin as a gay man and then reestablishing their friendship, Ben deliberately conveys a more progressive political image to the public. The invitation signals that Martin, once snubbed by the Fitzmaurices during a similar social gathering, is once again advantageous to them. The apparent warmth of the occasion masks its underlying conditionality, reinforcing the idea that access is always contingent on relevance.

The Statue of Lilith

The bronze statue of Lilith at the British Museum functions as a symbol of female defiance and the cost of suppressing it. Introduced during an exhibition on the theme of female rage, the sculpture depicts the mythological first wife of Adam, banished from Eden. The curator frames Lilith's exile as punishment for refusing to submit to patriarchal authority, observing “her only crime seems to have been disobedience to a man” (205). This description mirrors the predicament of several female characters in the novel. The discrediting of Fliss and her subsequent ostracization after accusing Jarvis of rape provides the ultimate example of how women are punished when they threaten established patriarchal hierarchies. Lilith’s story crystallizes the dynamics of a world that treats female autonomy as a threat to be neutralized.


Serena responds to the statue by imagining "being brave enough to flee the Garden of Eden, screaming with great righteousness into the night sky" (207). The fantasy reveals the distance between her role as a compliant, supportive wife and the person she longs to become, underscoring her sacrifice of agency in exchange for social status. When she witnesses the Oblivion Oil protesters coat the statue in orange paint, the act echoes the impact of patriarchal authority on Serena: It has contained her, obscured her true nature, and defined her power as purely decorative. Serena's concluding admission that she “can never be Lilith” and “is fated always to be Eve” underscores the theme of Hiding the Authentic Self With a Public-Facing Persona (213). While she recognizes her own entrapment in a performative role, she lacks the courage to break free.

Oblivion Oil

The motif of Oblivion Oil exposes the contradictions within both activist idealism and elite self-protection, connecting the novel's exploration of performed identity to The Corrupting Nature of Wealth and Status. The environmental protest group is a space where Cosima attempts to shed her Fitzmaurice inheritance and define herself by her convictions rather than lineage. Her codename, Pineapple, the group's rituals of trust, and its collective anonymity offer her a sense of belonging she has not experienced within her own family. Yet her membership of Oblivion Oil also involves deception, since her participation depends on concealing her wealth and privilege from the rest of the group.


The purity of Oblivion Oil’s ideals is further undermined by the revelation that its charismatic leader, River, is an undercover police officer. His presence shows that the state monitors political rebellion and dissent with the same institutional machinery the Fitzmaurices use to suppress inconvenient truths. Although River tells Cosima he loved the group members “in my way” and “believed in what we were doing” (149), his deception dissolves the boundary between genuine solidarity and strategic performance. His dual identity parallels Cosima's own. While her activism is sincere, it is also inextricably linked to a private vendetta against her father, whose role as the government’s Energy Secretary exemplifies his hypocrisy. Both Cosima’s and River’s actions demonstrate how hidden private agendas can corrupt the most well-intentioned moral objectives.

Bali

Bali operates as a recurring motif, associated with escape, self-destruction, and the impossibility of outrunning one's origins. The island features in the lives of two generations of Fitzmaurice women at pivotal moments, and its meaning shifts depending on which character seeks refuge there. For Fliss, Bali represents a final attempt to rebuild a life that trauma has dismantled. She finds work teaching yoga, befriends Derek, and begins to manage her addictions on her own terms. The island seems to offer what her home nation lacks: anonymity, warmth, and freedom from her family name. Yet when this fragile stability collapses, Bali becomes the place where Fliss's suffering reaches its final peak. Her death by suicide transforms the island's promise of renewal into a reminder of the inescapability of unresolved trauma.


When Cosima travels to the same island months later, she does so deliberately, wanting "to feel closer to Fliss" (288), aligning both women as Fitzmaurice outsiders who refuse to conform to their family’s values. Cosima intends her stay to be purposeful. Clearing plastic from beaches and leading volunteer crews allows her to put her environmentalist principles into practice. At the same time, her decision to take a long-haul flight to Bali to do so is ironic, directly clashing with Oblivion Oil’s protests over the harmful impact of fossil fuels. Apparently oblivious to this irony, Cosima unconsciously underscores the extent of the privilege she means to reject. Her panic attack when another volunteer recognizes her as a Fitzmaurice on Canggu beach proves the futility of attempting to escape one’s heritage through geography alone. Significantly, Cosima faints on the same stretch of coastline where her aunt drowned, linking their failed attempts to start anew. Bali does not essentially change either woman; rather, each brings her damage to its shores.


Throughout the novel, the motif of Bali exposes the asymmetry between Western wealth and the developing world. Filtered through the consciousness of privileged Western characters, it is presented as a site of self-discovery for wealthy individuals disillusioned with the moral emptiness of their own social world. Fliss and Cosima travel there in search of authenticity, healing, and clarity, but by escaping abroad, they commodify their self-discovery. Their perception of Bali as a spiritually rich, tranquil, and restorative environment aligns with Edward Said's concept of Orientalism—the reductive Western framing of the “East” as an exotic and aestheticized space—even while Western policies remove local people’s access to tranquility and beauty. One of Us frequently alludes to Said’s text, as it is the basis of Martin’s academic scandal, underscoring the “orientalist” nature of the characters’ views of Bali.

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