The Promise of Happiness

Sara Ahmed

The Promise of Happiness

Sara Ahmed
47 pages1-hour read
Nonfiction
Book
Adult
Published in 2010

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Major Characters

Sara Ahmed is a feminist scholar and the author of the cultural critique. She investigates what the concept of happiness does in society, specifically how it organizes desires and maintains social hierarchies. Instead of treating happiness as a natural emotional state, she views it as a social imperative that directs individuals toward approved life paths.

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Philosophical Subject of Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Theoretical Foundation for John Locke

Philosophical Subject of Aristotle

Theoretical Foundation for Simone de Beauvoir

Critique Subject of Martin Seligman

Intellectual Peer of Audre Lorde

Intellectual Peer of bell hooks

Intellectual Peer of Lee Edelman

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An 18th-century philosopher whose educational treatise, *Émile*, serves as a historical example of conditional happiness. His writing prescribes that women's education should be directed entirely toward supporting and pleasing men.

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Creator of Sophy

Creator of Émile

Examined by Sara Ahmed

A 17th-century empiricist philosopher who provides the starting point for the theory of "happy objects." His argument that people call something "good" if it increases pleasure is expanded in the text to show how objects circulate as social expectations.

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Examined by Sara Ahmed

Fellow Philosopher of Aristotle

A classical philosopher whose definition of happiness as the "Chief Good" is a foundational concept in Western thought. His model of the contemplative good life is analyzed for its reliance on the material security and hidden labor provided by others.

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Examined by Sara Ahmed

Fellow Philosopher of John Locke

A French feminist philosopher and author of *The Second Sex*. Her insights are used to question how claims about happiness often justify existing social arrangements, particularly concerning women's expected fulfillment in domestic roles.

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Theoretical Foundation for Sara Ahmed

Analyst of Clarissa Dalloway

A fictional character in Rousseau's *Émile* whose upbringing illustrates the concept of conditional happiness. Her education is designed entirely around preparing her for her role as a wife, expecting her to find her own happiness by serving her future husband.

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Future Wife of Émile

Literary Creation of Jean-Jacques Rousseau

The titular character of Rousseau's educational treatise. His future happiness is the focal point around which Sophy's education and domestic orientation are structured, demonstrating the unequal dynamics of gendered happiness.

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Future Husband of Sophy

The protagonist of George Eliot's novel, used to illustrate how a girl becomes troublesome when her desires exceed appropriate social boundaries. Her intellectual curiosity brings her into conflict with expectations of female duty.

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Subject of Analysis of Sara Ahmed

The protagonist of Hall's 1928 novel, whose experiences illustrate the figure of the "unhappy queer." Through her suffering, she learns that the happiness of the straight world is often built on the persecution of queer individuals.

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Romantic Interest of Mary

Social Acquaintance of Martin

Subject of Analysis of Sara Ahmed

A character in Radclyffe Hall's novel who is romantically connected to Stephen Gordon. Her position highlights the difficulties and societal pressures placed upon queer relationships.

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Romantic Interest of Stephen Gordon

Partner of Martin

A male character in Radclyffe Hall's novel. He represents the socially accepted path of heterosexual happiness that Stephen Gordon believes Mary requires.

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Partner of Mary

Social Acquaintance of Stephen Gordon

The protagonist of the film *Bend It Like Beckham*. She finds a sense of freedom, mobility, and national belonging through playing football, representing a modern fable of successful cultural integration in Britain.

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Daughter of Jess's Father

Mentee of Joe

A character whose memory of racial exclusion shapes his response to his daughter's pursuit of football. His initial objections to her playing are treated by the film's narrative as an obstacle to family and national happiness.

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Father of Jess

The white male football coach in the film. His body and presence serve as a conversion point that helps bring the melancholic migrant back into the fold of the happy nation.

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Coach of Jess

A man living in a world suffering from global infertility. Initially a cynical "affect alien" estranged from the collective mood, his journey propels him from apathy to revolutionary action as he attempts to protect a pregnant refugee.

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Ex-Husband of Julian

Protector of Kee

Father of Dylan

A key figure in the dystopian resistance who pulls Theo out of his cynical withdrawal, pushing him to take action for the future.

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Ex-Wife of Theo

A young refugee in a dystopian world facing societal collapse due to infertility. Her miraculous pregnancy makes her survival the central focus of hope for the future.

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Ward of Theo

Theo's lost child in the dystopian setting. The largely unspoken grief surrounding Dylan contributes heavily to Theo's initial cynicism and withdrawal from the world.

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Child of Theo

A prominent psychologist who used his presidency of the American Psychological Association to promote positive psychology. His approach is critiqued for framing happiness as an individual responsibility and a measurable project of self-improvement.

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Examined by Sara Ahmed

Professional Peer of Michael Argyle

A psychologist whose work on the psychology of happiness presents the study of well-being as a way to help people govern their souls and become happier through individual effort.

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Professional Peer of Martin Seligman

A Black feminist writer whose work provides a theoretical foundation for understanding the feminist killjoy. She argues against mandatory optimism, suggesting that demanding positive feelings often covers up difficult realities like racial tension.

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Theoretical Foundation for Sara Ahmed

Fellow Feminist Theorist of bell hooks

A prominent Black feminist thinker. She points out that mid-century domestic ideals center the experiences of white, middle-class women while excluding working-class women and women of color, who often perform the hidden labor that makes such lifestyles possible.

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Critic of Betty Friedan

Fellow Feminist Theorist of Audre Lorde

Theoretical Foundation for Sara Ahmed

A second-wave feminist author known for *The Feminine Mystique*. Her work exposes the unhappiness concealed behind the smiling image of the mid-century housewife, though her analysis faces criticism for its racial and class exclusivity.

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Critiqued by bell hooks

A queer theorist and author of *No Future*, whose arguments against "reproductive futurism" spark theoretical debate. His embrace of the death drive contrasts with efforts to pursue alternative, livable queer futures.

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Examined by Sara Ahmed

A character whose desire for Englishness is shaped by racial alienation. Her journey demonstrates that attempting to assimilate into the dominant culture does not guarantee the belonging or happiness it promises.

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Subject of Analysis of Sara Ahmed

A woman encouraged by her migrant father to assimilate into British culture. She becomes an "affect alien" when her growing consciousness of racism distances her from dominant, optimistic narratives of British integration.

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Daughter of Mr. Hai

A migrant father who strongly encourages his daughter to assimilate into British culture. His push for integration inadvertently leaves his daughter feeling that the nation's promise of happiness is empty.

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Father of Yasmin Hai

A young woman who is forced to end her relationship with her partner, Paulie, because pursuing queer love threatens the conventional future and belonging her parents have imagined for her.

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Romantic Partner of Paulie

A character whose queer relationship with Tori is broken apart by social and familial expectations. Her resulting despair culminates in a dramatic act that the film frames as an ambiguous ascent.

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Romantic Partner of Tori

The protagonist of Virginia Woolf's *Mrs. Dalloway*. Her role as a hostess and "bestower of happiness" serves as an example of how the giving of happiness can become a restrictive gendered duty.

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Examined by Simone de Beauvoir