American monk Thomas Merton was a personal hero of the author, who believes that Merton was entering his second half of life when he wrote the poem “When in the Soul of the Serene Disciple.” Rohr reprints the entire poem with his commentary on it.

He feels the poem discusses people’s journey to their true selves by letting go of unnecessary boundaries, securities, and tribal labels, and engaging in shadow work. He feels that the poem teaches the reader that stumbling stones are necessary parts of growth, and to not look forward or back, but live in the present. He recognizes the second half of life perspective in Merton’s poem, which celebrates no longer being motivated by money, approval, or status, but instead being immersed in the “sacred dance” and unified with God (114). This experience is part of being a “serene disciple” (114).

In his final passages Rohr treats Thomas Merton, a well-known American Cistercian monk, as a spiritual authority. The author uses Merton’s poem as an artistic illustration of people’s evolving relationship with God in the second half of their lives. Rohr’s commentary helps the reader connect Merton’s words with Rohr’s explanations of spiritual maturity, highlighting the process of suffering, surrender, and peace which characterizes the second half of life. 

Rohr’s concluding message to the reader ends his work on an uplifting and encouraging note: “The freedom illustrated here might be exactly where the further journey is going to lead you. I hope so” (111).

Chapter Lessons

• Spiritual maturity means letting go of boundaries and labels
• Everyone must do shadow work to face and pacify their negative traits
• The second half of life brings a new sense of peace and union with God

Reflection Questions

• How did Merton’s poem affect you? How do you interpret it?
• Rohr considers Merton an important spiritual authority in his own life. Which authors have strongly shaped your own spirituality? How and why?
• Rohr says that “stumbling stones” are necessary for growth. What “stumbling stones” are you currently facing? How could you use them as an opportunity for personal growth?